Mommy2bagain510
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Georgia
I got married on May 18, 2009. I found out mid-September I was pregnant. I am 13 weeks now. I have a son from a previous relationship who will be 2 in March. My husband said he would love him and treat him as his own son.
My husband and I are heading toward seperation and I just would like to know a little bit about what to expect and what I can do. I'll try to give details short and concise and be as efficient as possible.
He is in the USAF. I believe he has OCD. I am not allowed to touch 'his stuff.' He keeps his food on a seperate shelf from my stuff and my son's. We started having problems in July of this year when we were arguing and he was drunk and punched a hole in the wall of our apt. A friend of mine got worried and called his First Sgt. We had to go to a lot of classes and see people on base about it, and a lady was coming to our home to check up on things. Then in September one night, we argued and he was about to go get alcohol and I told him if he did I was leaving and going to my parents' that I did not want myself or my son around that.
The lady that did home visits was due for a visit and so she had to come to my parents' instead. I talked to her and my parents told her what they'd seen. She took the information with her and it was later determined by a board with the Air Force that he was guilty of Emotional Maltreatment of his spouse.
He's had to take several classes for Alcohol Abuse, see a psycologist on base, Anger Management as well. Things haven't changed. We have a joint checking account. He says he's taking my name off and giving me a different one. He is taking cable and internet away, and if I don't agree with it we can get an annullment; he's putting his foot down.
I'm pregnant. I stay home with my son (as per my husband's and my agreement) I've been sick and unable to get a job. I am on his TriCare insurance. I have no car or drivers' license and right now am staying with my parents. I am just wondering if I am entitled to any support before I have this baby and will he be able to take me off of his insurance BEFORE the baby is born? What bases should I cover?
I got married on May 18, 2009. I found out mid-September I was pregnant. I am 13 weeks now. I have a son from a previous relationship who will be 2 in March. My husband said he would love him and treat him as his own son.
My husband and I are heading toward seperation and I just would like to know a little bit about what to expect and what I can do. I'll try to give details short and concise and be as efficient as possible.
He is in the USAF. I believe he has OCD. I am not allowed to touch 'his stuff.' He keeps his food on a seperate shelf from my stuff and my son's. We started having problems in July of this year when we were arguing and he was drunk and punched a hole in the wall of our apt. A friend of mine got worried and called his First Sgt. We had to go to a lot of classes and see people on base about it, and a lady was coming to our home to check up on things. Then in September one night, we argued and he was about to go get alcohol and I told him if he did I was leaving and going to my parents' that I did not want myself or my son around that.
The lady that did home visits was due for a visit and so she had to come to my parents' instead. I talked to her and my parents told her what they'd seen. She took the information with her and it was later determined by a board with the Air Force that he was guilty of Emotional Maltreatment of his spouse.
He's had to take several classes for Alcohol Abuse, see a psycologist on base, Anger Management as well. Things haven't changed. We have a joint checking account. He says he's taking my name off and giving me a different one. He is taking cable and internet away, and if I don't agree with it we can get an annullment; he's putting his foot down.
I'm pregnant. I stay home with my son (as per my husband's and my agreement) I've been sick and unable to get a job. I am on his TriCare insurance. I have no car or drivers' license and right now am staying with my parents. I am just wondering if I am entitled to any support before I have this baby and will he be able to take me off of his insurance BEFORE the baby is born? What bases should I cover?
