familylawcrisis
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What is the name of your state? VA
My husband and I were living in ME and my son's biological grandmother showed up at my door step after six years of no contact. My son had no memory of his biological father or her. I let her see him but did not want her playing an active part in his life as she is an alcoholic and hadn't made an attempt in so long. Because I wouldn't let her keep seeing him, she literally brought her son to the courthouse to have him try to get visitations so that she could see him. He is a marijuana user and all around bad influence. For ex: he bought my son the Sims game for gamecube, but the Bustin' Out version with a nudist colony and many other inappropriate things on it. My son is eight. He is also a pathological liar. Anyways, he was granted phone contact, and supervised visits with the intent of becoming unsupervised possibly this summer. My son is scared to death of having to go anywhere with him. I have tried to be positive and as encouraging as I can be, but he says he makes him uncomfortable. My son would like my husband to adopt him, which is what we would like as well. Well my husband got a job offer in VA which we couldn't turn down. We have been living here for 2 1/2 months approx. Also since we have been living here, his biological father has called four times. He was granted bi-weekly for the first two weeks and then as often as possible. Should our case be transferred here? Or can it be?
Thanks
My husband and I were living in ME and my son's biological grandmother showed up at my door step after six years of no contact. My son had no memory of his biological father or her. I let her see him but did not want her playing an active part in his life as she is an alcoholic and hadn't made an attempt in so long. Because I wouldn't let her keep seeing him, she literally brought her son to the courthouse to have him try to get visitations so that she could see him. He is a marijuana user and all around bad influence. For ex: he bought my son the Sims game for gamecube, but the Bustin' Out version with a nudist colony and many other inappropriate things on it. My son is eight. He is also a pathological liar. Anyways, he was granted phone contact, and supervised visits with the intent of becoming unsupervised possibly this summer. My son is scared to death of having to go anywhere with him. I have tried to be positive and as encouraging as I can be, but he says he makes him uncomfortable. My son would like my husband to adopt him, which is what we would like as well. Well my husband got a job offer in VA which we couldn't turn down. We have been living here for 2 1/2 months approx. Also since we have been living here, his biological father has called four times. He was granted bi-weekly for the first two weeks and then as often as possible. Should our case be transferred here? Or can it be?
Thanks