What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Massachusetts
The ex-wife and I share legal custody of our pre-school children, she having physical custody and the children residing with her. The custody agreement does not include any language regarding notification of a desire to relocate, nor language restricting the same.
She contacted me yesterday evening in regards to a potential relocation from Massachusetts to the West Coast. She is interviewing for a position that would earn more than she makes now, and "allow her to live closer to work with better schools for less money." She has stated an expectation to take the children with her, visitation would be worked out if I decided to remain in MA. Finally, "we would need to go to Family court to work out the appropriate details if we can not come to an arrangement on our own." She has no family in the region.
As for myself, I have only asked questions. I've not made any statements or offered opinions regarding her intentions. For me to relocate would mean finding new employment in the same region and inflict a significant financial burden. I have met or exceeded all of the custody agreement's terms (spending extra time with the children, on time or early with CS payments, on time dropping the children off after visitations, etc.)
I do not wish to see my children move cross country, lose any visitation time with them, or see a reduction of my parental rights. Rather, the only modification I would be interested in is an increase in visitation and/or shared physical custody.
Any insight or opinions shared would be greatly appreciated.
The ex-wife and I share legal custody of our pre-school children, she having physical custody and the children residing with her. The custody agreement does not include any language regarding notification of a desire to relocate, nor language restricting the same.
She contacted me yesterday evening in regards to a potential relocation from Massachusetts to the West Coast. She is interviewing for a position that would earn more than she makes now, and "allow her to live closer to work with better schools for less money." She has stated an expectation to take the children with her, visitation would be worked out if I decided to remain in MA. Finally, "we would need to go to Family court to work out the appropriate details if we can not come to an arrangement on our own." She has no family in the region.
As for myself, I have only asked questions. I've not made any statements or offered opinions regarding her intentions. For me to relocate would mean finding new employment in the same region and inflict a significant financial burden. I have met or exceeded all of the custody agreement's terms (spending extra time with the children, on time or early with CS payments, on time dropping the children off after visitations, etc.)
I do not wish to see my children move cross country, lose any visitation time with them, or see a reduction of my parental rights. Rather, the only modification I would be interested in is an increase in visitation and/or shared physical custody.
Any insight or opinions shared would be greatly appreciated.