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Shocking Decisions by Judge in Custody Case With Clear Sign of Child Abuse & Neglect
State of NH - New Hampshire (Superior Court Divorce and Custody Hearing)
Hi, I was wondering if anyone has any ideas for me. I am trying to get custody of my children in New Hampshire. Mother has put kids in dangerous situations, Here is a brief rundown of the big issues at hand: Mother let the kids hang around with a potential child molester. I had asked her to stop and she refused and kept bringing the kids to see this person then used it to make me mad. A crazy sort of revenge I guess! I was forced to get an ex-parte court order which was granted. Since this happened I began watching the residence where the kids are to be sure they are safe when they are not with me. The mother noticed this and then tried to have a court order to keep me away, stating that I was "Stalking" the court did not honor her request. The mother has also created a dangerous living environment in the home by leaving broken glass in the play areas of the home, along with cat and dog urine and feces in the play areas. The home is always dirty, except during the GAL visit of coarse. The mother has also abondonded the family dog which ended up having to be rescued from an island by the fire department. She admited to the police that she did this because the GAL was coming and she didn't want the GAL to see the dog urine and feces on the floor during the home visit. She appeared in court and plead guilt to animal cruelt and animal abondonment. She had to pay for the vet bills as well as provide some sort of community service. She also showed the kids the hate mail and told them about the threatening phone calls they had received, she even let the kids read the hate mail that was addresses to her! The kids were scared beyond belief by this!! Mother has also kept the kids informed of divorce hearings every step of the way, forcing the kids to grow up in a hurry. Whenever we went to court, she would go home and dump it all on the kids. THe kids would call me crying asking me "why are you being so mean to us?" My oldest child is now suicidal from what I would believe to be from the divorce since he was stable before. I tried to get the kids into counseling but I was told I needed her permission! When I asked the mother for permission to bring the kids to counseling to deal with their problems she outright refused. She stated that I was only bring them children to counseling to help my court case! I was then forced to seek a court order to get the kids into counseling, the court refused! I was shocked by the court's wrecklessnes! The GAL stepped in and forced the mother to bring the kids to counseling, stating that the kids are in serious need of help and to do it right away! Two days later, the GAL submits the GAL report to the court and recommends the children stay living with the mother! The GAL didn't seem to have much of a preference either way, the report appeared a bit nuetral but kept the kids living where they have been living. I do not understand why the GAL would make such a recommendation. I know that it is the kids choice that made the GAL swing this way, but the kids choice has been tainted by parent alienation. He agreed that the boys are not stable one minute, but then took their preference under consideration in the GAL report! Of coarse the kids want to stay with the mother. I have been made to look like an evil father and thats all I have done was tried to help these kids. Now it appears that they will remain living with the mother that has put them in so many bad situations it makes me sick! There are a ton of issues, I am only mentioning the big ones. I only make $1,800.00 a month, $1,000.00 of that goes to the mother by the recent court orders. As a result, my attorney has dropped me for non payment of legal fees. I am now fighting my case Pro se. My kids need help and they need a stable and safe environment. Everytime I go to court, the judge slaps me with another shocker. Im convinced that courts take the side of the mother, and the father has to fight his way through the system. I thought the courts were concerned about the kids, but yet they argue about money first, then the kids second! Without money I don't think I will be able to get custody and do whats right for these kids, I am forced to go Pro se. Anyone have any hints or resources?
State of NH - New Hampshire (Superior Court Divorce and Custody Hearing)
Hi, I was wondering if anyone has any ideas for me. I am trying to get custody of my children in New Hampshire. Mother has put kids in dangerous situations, Here is a brief rundown of the big issues at hand: Mother let the kids hang around with a potential child molester. I had asked her to stop and she refused and kept bringing the kids to see this person then used it to make me mad. A crazy sort of revenge I guess! I was forced to get an ex-parte court order which was granted. Since this happened I began watching the residence where the kids are to be sure they are safe when they are not with me. The mother noticed this and then tried to have a court order to keep me away, stating that I was "Stalking" the court did not honor her request. The mother has also created a dangerous living environment in the home by leaving broken glass in the play areas of the home, along with cat and dog urine and feces in the play areas. The home is always dirty, except during the GAL visit of coarse. The mother has also abondonded the family dog which ended up having to be rescued from an island by the fire department. She admited to the police that she did this because the GAL was coming and she didn't want the GAL to see the dog urine and feces on the floor during the home visit. She appeared in court and plead guilt to animal cruelt and animal abondonment. She had to pay for the vet bills as well as provide some sort of community service. She also showed the kids the hate mail and told them about the threatening phone calls they had received, she even let the kids read the hate mail that was addresses to her! The kids were scared beyond belief by this!! Mother has also kept the kids informed of divorce hearings every step of the way, forcing the kids to grow up in a hurry. Whenever we went to court, she would go home and dump it all on the kids. THe kids would call me crying asking me "why are you being so mean to us?" My oldest child is now suicidal from what I would believe to be from the divorce since he was stable before. I tried to get the kids into counseling but I was told I needed her permission! When I asked the mother for permission to bring the kids to counseling to deal with their problems she outright refused. She stated that I was only bring them children to counseling to help my court case! I was then forced to seek a court order to get the kids into counseling, the court refused! I was shocked by the court's wrecklessnes! The GAL stepped in and forced the mother to bring the kids to counseling, stating that the kids are in serious need of help and to do it right away! Two days later, the GAL submits the GAL report to the court and recommends the children stay living with the mother! The GAL didn't seem to have much of a preference either way, the report appeared a bit nuetral but kept the kids living where they have been living. I do not understand why the GAL would make such a recommendation. I know that it is the kids choice that made the GAL swing this way, but the kids choice has been tainted by parent alienation. He agreed that the boys are not stable one minute, but then took their preference under consideration in the GAL report! Of coarse the kids want to stay with the mother. I have been made to look like an evil father and thats all I have done was tried to help these kids. Now it appears that they will remain living with the mother that has put them in so many bad situations it makes me sick! There are a ton of issues, I am only mentioning the big ones. I only make $1,800.00 a month, $1,000.00 of that goes to the mother by the recent court orders. As a result, my attorney has dropped me for non payment of legal fees. I am now fighting my case Pro se. My kids need help and they need a stable and safe environment. Everytime I go to court, the judge slaps me with another shocker. Im convinced that courts take the side of the mother, and the father has to fight his way through the system. I thought the courts were concerned about the kids, but yet they argue about money first, then the kids second! Without money I don't think I will be able to get custody and do whats right for these kids, I am forced to go Pro se. Anyone have any hints or resources?