Alabama (only U.S. law)?
**LONG STORY**
Im new to this thread thing, I need help.
When I was 16 I met a guy, living on his own, who had a random girl come over (acting crazy outside and yelling), he told me it was his ex fiance and she was crazy. Well of course I believed the guy I THOUGHT I wanted to be with, so a few months pass, and then I find out he's actually MARRIED to her. Which at this point, he says he is seperated and wants to be with me, okay im still being stupid at this point and believe him, so I wind up getting pregnant a few months later and turns out he wasnt even seperarated at all. He continued to try to be with me after the birth of our daughter, clearly I had gained some sense by then and didn't believe this worthless man. Since my daughter was born all he has bought was diapers, wipes, and bottle drop in bags, and there were still some months when my parents and I had to pitch in because he would stop talking to me at random times and wouldnt see her or buy her things for two and three weeks at a time. My daughter has been in daycare for 3 months (which my parents pay for, they also pay for her food) which has helped a lot with her being around him (she would never go to him, and now only goes if I am a few feet away from them). He did not sign the birth certificate, and didnt want to get a dna test because he simply didnt want to pay child support (we ourselves made an agreement for him to pay $60 every two weeks which coverd the most expesive things she needs diapers, wipes, juice). His wife has been finding my friends on two social networks and adding them, I asked him to tell her to stop, she did the first time. She started again last night in which I asked her to stop. Well my childs father and his wife are calling me a hoe, and now wanting a dna test blah blah. He is a great father. But his wife has threatened me over a year ago, and always calling me a hoe and a bitch. Am I wrong for not wanting my child around her? My child is only 1. He has told me stories about the physical fights he and his wife have gotten in, but this has been over a year and a half ago. She is calling herself a stepmother to my daughter, if I am correct, step parents dont have rights to the child? If he is at work can he leave my child with her? I want to make sure my child is never with his wife alone, and never in the car alone either. I dont want her to be the one who picks up my child when we are switching days, (IF he actually takes me to court)
Another thing, if he has a previous drug record can he be proven unfit, if he knows he has a drug test coming he will be clean for it, he also gets drinking all the time, not just one beer, like a four and five.
**LONG STORY**
Im new to this thread thing, I need help.
When I was 16 I met a guy, living on his own, who had a random girl come over (acting crazy outside and yelling), he told me it was his ex fiance and she was crazy. Well of course I believed the guy I THOUGHT I wanted to be with, so a few months pass, and then I find out he's actually MARRIED to her. Which at this point, he says he is seperated and wants to be with me, okay im still being stupid at this point and believe him, so I wind up getting pregnant a few months later and turns out he wasnt even seperarated at all. He continued to try to be with me after the birth of our daughter, clearly I had gained some sense by then and didn't believe this worthless man. Since my daughter was born all he has bought was diapers, wipes, and bottle drop in bags, and there were still some months when my parents and I had to pitch in because he would stop talking to me at random times and wouldnt see her or buy her things for two and three weeks at a time. My daughter has been in daycare for 3 months (which my parents pay for, they also pay for her food) which has helped a lot with her being around him (she would never go to him, and now only goes if I am a few feet away from them). He did not sign the birth certificate, and didnt want to get a dna test because he simply didnt want to pay child support (we ourselves made an agreement for him to pay $60 every two weeks which coverd the most expesive things she needs diapers, wipes, juice). His wife has been finding my friends on two social networks and adding them, I asked him to tell her to stop, she did the first time. She started again last night in which I asked her to stop. Well my childs father and his wife are calling me a hoe, and now wanting a dna test blah blah. He is a great father. But his wife has threatened me over a year ago, and always calling me a hoe and a bitch. Am I wrong for not wanting my child around her? My child is only 1. He has told me stories about the physical fights he and his wife have gotten in, but this has been over a year and a half ago. She is calling herself a stepmother to my daughter, if I am correct, step parents dont have rights to the child? If he is at work can he leave my child with her? I want to make sure my child is never with his wife alone, and never in the car alone either. I dont want her to be the one who picks up my child when we are switching days, (IF he actually takes me to court)
Another thing, if he has a previous drug record can he be proven unfit, if he knows he has a drug test coming he will be clean for it, he also gets drinking all the time, not just one beer, like a four and five.