What is the name of your state? CA
I was in court last Friday and the judge issued a stay away order for my daughter's mom's boyfriend. He has been physically abusing her (biting, slapping). I did not get a copy of the order so I don't know the specifics, my attorney got a copy but his office does not open until Tuesday. What do these orders usually state? Because I just found out that my daughter's mom took my daughter to the boyfriends house the day after the order was issued and had my daughter wait outside this guys residence, twice in one day.
Just got out of the mediator's office. Daughter was interviewed. Mediator says that the bite and everything else was just playing around and she did not see abuse. I told her that the boyfriend is being prosecuted for cruelty to a child. She then mentioned that she might tell the criminal court that she did not see abuse. She also stated that she wanted to have a meeting with mom, the boyfriend and my daughter to see if they could work things out and "just get along." I told her I do not give any sort of permission for that and she said she might just do it anyway. She also said that the meeting would not violate the "no contact" issued by the family court. She also tried to get me to back off the criminal charges. She said that it would put my daughter through too much. She also said that the case probably wouldn't go to trial, that it would probably be settled in a YEAR. She said she wanted me to have an open mind about it (YEAH RIGHT). I thought 3rd parties were not included unless it was an investigation. I do not know what to think right now. I'm going to file a complaint with her office and see if I can get a different mediator.What is the name of your state?
I was in court last Friday and the judge issued a stay away order for my daughter's mom's boyfriend. He has been physically abusing her (biting, slapping). I did not get a copy of the order so I don't know the specifics, my attorney got a copy but his office does not open until Tuesday. What do these orders usually state? Because I just found out that my daughter's mom took my daughter to the boyfriends house the day after the order was issued and had my daughter wait outside this guys residence, twice in one day.
Just got out of the mediator's office. Daughter was interviewed. Mediator says that the bite and everything else was just playing around and she did not see abuse. I told her that the boyfriend is being prosecuted for cruelty to a child. She then mentioned that she might tell the criminal court that she did not see abuse. She also stated that she wanted to have a meeting with mom, the boyfriend and my daughter to see if they could work things out and "just get along." I told her I do not give any sort of permission for that and she said she might just do it anyway. She also said that the meeting would not violate the "no contact" issued by the family court. She also tried to get me to back off the criminal charges. She said that it would put my daughter through too much. She also said that the case probably wouldn't go to trial, that it would probably be settled in a YEAR. She said she wanted me to have an open mind about it (YEAH RIGHT). I thought 3rd parties were not included unless it was an investigation. I do not know what to think right now. I'm going to file a complaint with her office and see if I can get a different mediator.What is the name of your state?