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My son is know 13, I have not been w/BIO since I was 5 months pregnant. His BIO does pay child support, when he works (garnished wages). BIO is a felon, alcoholic, and drug user, has been clean at times but not always. The only reason he would want said child is for SS, surprise, surprise, I have not worked since I met my husband when my son was 21 months old! Stay at home mom w/4 children.(37 years old)
My husband and I did not marry until 2000. My husband has helped raise my son all these years! (financally,emotionally etc...)My husband has been the only dad my son has ever known (has step-brother, half sister and brother) that he dearly loves and wants to stay with! He does not want to ever go with BIO!
My son was born w/a VSD (heart disability) he was able to draw SSI and medicaid the first few years of his life. When my son could no longer get this I went after child support. This is ordered in the state of MT, I have full custody. BIO has had nothing to do w/him, Bio also has 3 other children from 3 other women but none of them went after CS they were just happy to have him out of their lives.( son has regular medical exams for VSD)
BIO would let step-dad adopt just to get out of paying CS, but Bio needs to be responsible for CS!! (arrears are at 20,000) Bio is unable to take care of my sons medical and emotional needs, Bio has no clue about these matters!
I am also a tribal member of Ft. Peck tribes out of MT. (both step-dad and Bio are white) Bio has no contact w/my son except the random CS payments! The last time I even had contact was years ago (4 or 5 at least)
We found out I have a heart problem that will eventually kill me. We will know how fast it is progressing in about 3 months!!! I want him to stay w/his dad, my husband! Would a will help!
My son is know 13, I have not been w/BIO since I was 5 months pregnant. His BIO does pay child support, when he works (garnished wages). BIO is a felon, alcoholic, and drug user, has been clean at times but not always. The only reason he would want said child is for SS, surprise, surprise, I have not worked since I met my husband when my son was 21 months old! Stay at home mom w/4 children.(37 years old)
My husband and I did not marry until 2000. My husband has helped raise my son all these years! (financally,emotionally etc...)My husband has been the only dad my son has ever known (has step-brother, half sister and brother) that he dearly loves and wants to stay with! He does not want to ever go with BIO!
My son was born w/a VSD (heart disability) he was able to draw SSI and medicaid the first few years of his life. When my son could no longer get this I went after child support. This is ordered in the state of MT, I have full custody. BIO has had nothing to do w/him, Bio also has 3 other children from 3 other women but none of them went after CS they were just happy to have him out of their lives.( son has regular medical exams for VSD)
BIO would let step-dad adopt just to get out of paying CS, but Bio needs to be responsible for CS!! (arrears are at 20,000) Bio is unable to take care of my sons medical and emotional needs, Bio has no clue about these matters!
I am also a tribal member of Ft. Peck tribes out of MT. (both step-dad and Bio are white) Bio has no contact w/my son except the random CS payments! The last time I even had contact was years ago (4 or 5 at least)
We found out I have a heart problem that will eventually kill me. We will know how fast it is progressing in about 3 months!!! I want him to stay w/his dad, my husband! Would a will help!