mothrscorned
Junior Member
I belive my son is being molested-HELP
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? South Carolina We think Gene (my son) has/is being molested in some way by his father who has court ordered visitation for 2 days and 1 Night a week..
We think this based on things he has said/done in my presence and at my mothers house. His pediatrician shares our suspicions and refered us to the ARC (abuse recovery center) who instructed us to file a police report
which we did yesterday, the investigator contacted us today and
refered us to the Dickerson Center for Children for an evaluation
and interview with a forensic psychotherapist next friday @
11am. Gene's dad is threatening to take me back to court for not relinquishing Gene for his court ordered visitation- he said that his lawyer said the judge would find me in contempt and I may have to serve jail time if I dont bring Gene to him. Which I do not want to do because of the allegations that have been made.
I keep kicking myself for dismissing things that
could be signs or could be something else, I trusted his dad not to
hurt him so the thought that something could be going on never
crossed my mind- there have been times that he has come home
from his dad's house with a sore bottom- it was red, irritated
looking, almost like he was pooping and not being wiped well, and
sore to the point of not wanting to sit in the bath tub because
the water stung him. But I dismissed it as just that he wasn't
telling his dad when he pooped so he didn't get wiped. Not until one
day at my mom's house did we suspect anything - he was playing
with TaCoy and he tried to put TaCoys finger on his anus, Jordan
and TaCoy were shocked and asked Gene who taught him that,
Gene at first said he couldnt say until they assured him that it is
ok to tell them and thats when he said his daddy joe did it. He has
said sexually suggestive things- smacking his bottom and saying
bare-back. He told his pediatrician that his daddy joe gives him a
bad touch with his mouth. I am just so sick and scared. I only
wanted what was best for Gene when I found joe and brought
him into his life-now I feel horrible.
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? South Carolina We think Gene (my son) has/is being molested in some way by his father who has court ordered visitation for 2 days and 1 Night a week..
We think this based on things he has said/done in my presence and at my mothers house. His pediatrician shares our suspicions and refered us to the ARC (abuse recovery center) who instructed us to file a police report
which we did yesterday, the investigator contacted us today and
refered us to the Dickerson Center for Children for an evaluation
and interview with a forensic psychotherapist next friday @
11am. Gene's dad is threatening to take me back to court for not relinquishing Gene for his court ordered visitation- he said that his lawyer said the judge would find me in contempt and I may have to serve jail time if I dont bring Gene to him. Which I do not want to do because of the allegations that have been made.
I keep kicking myself for dismissing things that
could be signs or could be something else, I trusted his dad not to
hurt him so the thought that something could be going on never
crossed my mind- there have been times that he has come home
from his dad's house with a sore bottom- it was red, irritated
looking, almost like he was pooping and not being wiped well, and
sore to the point of not wanting to sit in the bath tub because
the water stung him. But I dismissed it as just that he wasn't
telling his dad when he pooped so he didn't get wiped. Not until one
day at my mom's house did we suspect anything - he was playing
with TaCoy and he tried to put TaCoys finger on his anus, Jordan
and TaCoy were shocked and asked Gene who taught him that,
Gene at first said he couldnt say until they assured him that it is
ok to tell them and thats when he said his daddy joe did it. He has
said sexually suggestive things- smacking his bottom and saying
bare-back. He told his pediatrician that his daddy joe gives him a
bad touch with his mouth. I am just so sick and scared. I only
wanted what was best for Gene when I found joe and brought
him into his life-now I feel horrible.
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