UPDATE: I just wanted to give an update on my case. The judge just stepped down from the case earlier in the week because my ex was trying to socialize with him at a local restaurant and buy him drinks and also because the judge is involved in a community group with my sis in law and felt it was best to recuse himself as the judge. So a judge from an outside county will be following our case now. just to highlight everyone who might have missed something. My sons babysitter quit because of my ex harassing her, the GAL stepped down because my ex filed a grievance against her, the magistrate stepped down, and now the judge. Also my ex's 4th lawyer has quit and he is now on his 5th. Has anyone else ever experience these kinds of delays in their case. I filed for custody Dec 2012 and its still just hanging with no answers or responses on any of my motions. I fell like everyone is scared of my ex and nobody wants to deal with our case.
My lawyer did file my motion again for relocation and a motion to modify the current court order. I doubt any decisions will be made though until the psychological eval is released. Which it has been completed BUT no ruling has been made as to whom is going to pay it yet. From the beginning the judge said my ex is to pay it since he requested, it BUT now we have to go to court again for a ruling because he's fighting it. It could be done but my ex keeps stalling by firing a lawyer or going pro se for a bit and just holding up the courts. And a new lawyer will have to get familiar with the case and it's like we go to court to just file another continuance. He is just trying to break me until I give up.
I have already started my new job, and half moved, but my house is still for sale where I lived previously. I am still following my current order and plan to until new ones are made but I feel like new orders will never be made. Our son will be 5 in August and still there has been no arrangement to enroll in school or start school. He could be in Kindergarten but I think he should just go to preschool or a pre K program. Not because he's slow but because he is a boy and if he starts now he will graduate when he is 17. What if there is no ruling made by then. Does he just not get to be in school then? Im just so blown away by all this and having an overwhelming week.