What is the name of your state? CA - Can one parent get child tattoo/piercing without the other parents consent?
Both have joint legal custody with varied/non scheduled visitation.
Daughter (1 week away from 17) lives with mom. Son (15) lives with father. Son has told father that mother is going to take daughter to Las Vegas to get a tattoo & that she'll take the son and get his lip pierced if dad writes a letter of consent.
1) Can mother get daughter tattoo & piercing without father's consent even though daughter lives with mother?
2) What recourse does father have?
3) If son gets lip pierced and comes home (son has been told NO piercing period) and refuses to take out, what are recourses? If we call the police to witness that we are taking it out without "abusing" him (if holding around torso is needed) if police being there "scare" son into complying but if not to protect us from being accused of abusing child & protect us from him fighting/abusing us while taking piercing out.
It's hard to believe that it's come down to parents having to protect themselves against the kids crying abuse when abuse isn't happening and kids won't listen & when parent tries to discipline then they get CPS called on them.
Both have joint legal custody with varied/non scheduled visitation.
Daughter (1 week away from 17) lives with mom. Son (15) lives with father. Son has told father that mother is going to take daughter to Las Vegas to get a tattoo & that she'll take the son and get his lip pierced if dad writes a letter of consent.
1) Can mother get daughter tattoo & piercing without father's consent even though daughter lives with mother?
2) What recourse does father have?
3) If son gets lip pierced and comes home (son has been told NO piercing period) and refuses to take out, what are recourses? If we call the police to witness that we are taking it out without "abusing" him (if holding around torso is needed) if police being there "scare" son into complying but if not to protect us from being accused of abusing child & protect us from him fighting/abusing us while taking piercing out.
It's hard to believe that it's come down to parents having to protect themselves against the kids crying abuse when abuse isn't happening and kids won't listen & when parent tries to discipline then they get CPS called on them.