What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
I am the mother of two young boys ages 7 and 3. My husband and I are in the process of filing for a divorce, we have been separated informally for a year and he is asking for full custody of our boys on the grounds that I had an extramaritial affair. Currently we are living in the same home 4 nights a week. I stay at my boyfriends place the other three nights(not consecutively) when it is his turn to be with the boys and he will not move out of the house because he feels that he has a right to stay since he is the primary bread winner. I am the primary caregiver of the boys. I spend the most time with them and take care of their needs such as homework, bathing, feeding, picking up from school etc..when I am not working full time as a teacher and going to school to get my Masters degree.
My husband seems to think that since he makes more money and was faithful that he deserves full custody. He has threatened to take the kids out of state, take away my car and many other threats if I bring them near my boyfriend. I have kept my boyfriend and my children separate from each other even though the children know him and like him. They only know him as a friend of mine.
I dont know what my rights are here as a mother and if my custody is threatened because of my affair. I am terrified he would win custody based on his income and my affair. I need some advice!
Thank you.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
I am the mother of two young boys ages 7 and 3. My husband and I are in the process of filing for a divorce, we have been separated informally for a year and he is asking for full custody of our boys on the grounds that I had an extramaritial affair. Currently we are living in the same home 4 nights a week. I stay at my boyfriends place the other three nights(not consecutively) when it is his turn to be with the boys and he will not move out of the house because he feels that he has a right to stay since he is the primary bread winner. I am the primary caregiver of the boys. I spend the most time with them and take care of their needs such as homework, bathing, feeding, picking up from school etc..when I am not working full time as a teacher and going to school to get my Masters degree.
My husband seems to think that since he makes more money and was faithful that he deserves full custody. He has threatened to take the kids out of state, take away my car and many other threats if I bring them near my boyfriend. I have kept my boyfriend and my children separate from each other even though the children know him and like him. They only know him as a friend of mine.
I dont know what my rights are here as a mother and if my custody is threatened because of my affair. I am terrified he would win custody based on his income and my affair. I need some advice!
Thank you.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?