OnBehalfOfOther
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What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? Maryland
I have primary physical custody of my recently turned fifteen-year-old daughter (Simone), and although I must consult my ex-husband (Doug) on important health issues, I have the final determination of treatment.
Simone was under the care of an orthodontist in Maryland before we moved to Germany, for three years while in Germany ending in June 2004, and was to resume orthodontic treatment upon our return to Maryland in September 2004. While in Germany, Doug had summer and Christmas visitations with Simone. This last summer, we returned to the same Maryland home we left (Doug also resides in Maryland about 45 minutes south of where we live).
In July of the same year, Doug took Simone to an orthodontist in the city he lived in for treatment; he also tried to enroll her in the local public high school (they wouldn't accept her without records), signed her up for local sporting activities and was actively pursuing dance instruction for her. He then filed for custody (which essentially ended when Simone told him that she did not want to move).
Anyway (and my lawyer was floored when I told him this), Doug took her to an orthodontist with out any legal authority to do so, but more importantly: without medical, dental, or orthodontic records (as they were in my possession). The orthodontist treated Simone on at least two occasions, probably more. There is no doubt Simone was in treatment before Doug took her because she had appliances in her mouth. When Simone moved back home in August, she told me about this and when I questioned Doug, he wouldn't tell me who this orthodontist was. What I'm wondering is -
Is there any requirement for a professional, such as a doctor, to conduct any research when a child comes in for routine (as opposed to emergency) treatment accompanied by someone with neither medical nor dental records (and in this case, also without legal authority)? To me, the lack of these is a flashing red light, and even smells of parental abduction. Thank goodness the local public school system had such simple checks and balances.
Thanks!
I have primary physical custody of my recently turned fifteen-year-old daughter (Simone), and although I must consult my ex-husband (Doug) on important health issues, I have the final determination of treatment.
Simone was under the care of an orthodontist in Maryland before we moved to Germany, for three years while in Germany ending in June 2004, and was to resume orthodontic treatment upon our return to Maryland in September 2004. While in Germany, Doug had summer and Christmas visitations with Simone. This last summer, we returned to the same Maryland home we left (Doug also resides in Maryland about 45 minutes south of where we live).
In July of the same year, Doug took Simone to an orthodontist in the city he lived in for treatment; he also tried to enroll her in the local public high school (they wouldn't accept her without records), signed her up for local sporting activities and was actively pursuing dance instruction for her. He then filed for custody (which essentially ended when Simone told him that she did not want to move).
Anyway (and my lawyer was floored when I told him this), Doug took her to an orthodontist with out any legal authority to do so, but more importantly: without medical, dental, or orthodontic records (as they were in my possession). The orthodontist treated Simone on at least two occasions, probably more. There is no doubt Simone was in treatment before Doug took her because she had appliances in her mouth. When Simone moved back home in August, she told me about this and when I questioned Doug, he wouldn't tell me who this orthodontist was. What I'm wondering is -
Is there any requirement for a professional, such as a doctor, to conduct any research when a child comes in for routine (as opposed to emergency) treatment accompanied by someone with neither medical nor dental records (and in this case, also without legal authority)? To me, the lack of these is a flashing red light, and even smells of parental abduction. Thank goodness the local public school system had such simple checks and balances.
Thanks!