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stepmom68
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What is the name of your state? biodad is PA, bio mom is IL
my husband and i are extremely concerned about his three children. biomom has custody but does not really care for them, only interested in money. biomom has not let us see the children since november, when we had to drive to IL because the oldest was in legal trouble. oldest SD lived with us for 2 years and was an a/b student. went to live with mom last march (biomom more permissive), now she doesn't go to school and will not pass 11th grade. oldest smokes, is a runaway, and has other problems. youngest SS (12) was an average student but in the past year (since return of oldest SD) has started failing school also. the middle SD (14) is doing ok, but was a straight A student and is now B/C student with several F's. The home they live in is deplorable at best, only junk food, no clean clothes, the younger two have never been taught how to keep themselves clean and kept. The have approximately 10 to 15 cats in the has and the litter boxes are in the children's bedrooms. the home smells of urine and fecal matter. when they came to visit last year, I had to wash all of their clothes, due to the smell. we want custody of all three children but are not sure this is enough grounds to get custody. my husband doesn't want to hurt the children anymore, but i feel it is in their best interest not to be in that situation any longer. the SS wants to live with us and we think the middle SD would come to but we do not know what to do. Please help! we are extremely concerned.
my husband and i are extremely concerned about his three children. biomom has custody but does not really care for them, only interested in money. biomom has not let us see the children since november, when we had to drive to IL because the oldest was in legal trouble. oldest SD lived with us for 2 years and was an a/b student. went to live with mom last march (biomom more permissive), now she doesn't go to school and will not pass 11th grade. oldest smokes, is a runaway, and has other problems. youngest SS (12) was an average student but in the past year (since return of oldest SD) has started failing school also. the middle SD (14) is doing ok, but was a straight A student and is now B/C student with several F's. The home they live in is deplorable at best, only junk food, no clean clothes, the younger two have never been taught how to keep themselves clean and kept. The have approximately 10 to 15 cats in the has and the litter boxes are in the children's bedrooms. the home smells of urine and fecal matter. when they came to visit last year, I had to wash all of their clothes, due to the smell. we want custody of all three children but are not sure this is enough grounds to get custody. my husband doesn't want to hurt the children anymore, but i feel it is in their best interest not to be in that situation any longer. the SS wants to live with us and we think the middle SD would come to but we do not know what to do. Please help! we are extremely concerned.