Garrison32
Junior Member
Hawaii
I have been divorced for 2 years. Ex-wife had an affair with a married man, and is still with him. We have a 5 year old daughter. I have custody EVERY week from Thursday afternoon till Sunday afternoon.
When we divorced, she and I split $64K in cash equally. She has pretty much spent than money as you will read in the next paragraph.
Ever since we divorced, my ex has bought a VW Toureg, then traded it in for a BMW sedan, and now traded the Bmer in to get a Mercedes. According to my daughter, my ex and her boyfriend argue a lot, and my daughter even argues with her mom, and my daughter even locks herself in her room to get away.
I wanted full custody in the beginning, but my attorney said that the affair holds no water in a divorce court, and the courts here in Hawaii favor the mother.
Bottom line is this: Everyone here that knows us can attest that I was more of a parent than my ex was, and I was wondering, does spending money above their means qualify as being irresponsible and unfit? I suspect that she has smoked pot since her boyfriend does, but I can't be 100% sure.
thanks for your time,
Garrison
I have been divorced for 2 years. Ex-wife had an affair with a married man, and is still with him. We have a 5 year old daughter. I have custody EVERY week from Thursday afternoon till Sunday afternoon.
When we divorced, she and I split $64K in cash equally. She has pretty much spent than money as you will read in the next paragraph.
Ever since we divorced, my ex has bought a VW Toureg, then traded it in for a BMW sedan, and now traded the Bmer in to get a Mercedes. According to my daughter, my ex and her boyfriend argue a lot, and my daughter even argues with her mom, and my daughter even locks herself in her room to get away.
I wanted full custody in the beginning, but my attorney said that the affair holds no water in a divorce court, and the courts here in Hawaii favor the mother.
Bottom line is this: Everyone here that knows us can attest that I was more of a parent than my ex was, and I was wondering, does spending money above their means qualify as being irresponsible and unfit? I suspect that she has smoked pot since her boyfriend does, but I can't be 100% sure.
thanks for your time,
Garrison