What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
First off, I have read over many of the threads here and all the information I have seen has given me a lot of hope and direction with my situation. Many Thanks!
My girlfriend of 2 years and I broke up 2 months ago and she moved out of my house.
She of course took her 2 kids (10 and 12) with her.
I have no children of my own.
She is 5 months pregnant as of today with what I understand is my baby.
I have gone to every doctor appointment and the 1 sonogram.
We don’t have any contact except at the doctor appointments.
The last appointment she said I had to wait in the waiting room which I did not like but politely complied with.
The next day was the sonogram and she let me in for that.
I have offered my financial assistance in person and she has not replied.
She has good insurance with her work.
She said we would have 50-50 custody.
I know that she doesn’t have to do anything, is not obligated to inform me of the appointments, labor, or birth.
I genuinely want what is best for this baby and will seek custody if this matter goes to court or if I am denied the 50/50 agreement.
How would I know when the baby is born?
My concern is that when the baby is born, would you suggest having something already in place to establish paternity, visitation, and whatever/however else I need?
Is their anyway this case does not get to the court system?
First off, I have read over many of the threads here and all the information I have seen has given me a lot of hope and direction with my situation. Many Thanks!
My girlfriend of 2 years and I broke up 2 months ago and she moved out of my house.
She of course took her 2 kids (10 and 12) with her.
I have no children of my own.
She is 5 months pregnant as of today with what I understand is my baby.
I have gone to every doctor appointment and the 1 sonogram.
We don’t have any contact except at the doctor appointments.
The last appointment she said I had to wait in the waiting room which I did not like but politely complied with.
The next day was the sonogram and she let me in for that.
I have offered my financial assistance in person and she has not replied.
She has good insurance with her work.
She said we would have 50-50 custody.
I know that she doesn’t have to do anything, is not obligated to inform me of the appointments, labor, or birth.
I genuinely want what is best for this baby and will seek custody if this matter goes to court or if I am denied the 50/50 agreement.
How would I know when the baby is born?
My concern is that when the baby is born, would you suggest having something already in place to establish paternity, visitation, and whatever/however else I need?
Is their anyway this case does not get to the court system?