What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? IN
What I do not understand is why a parent cannot be held in contempt for not picking up their children for visitation but a parent can be held in contempt for not allowing visitation. It's the exact same order. The Judge has ordered specific times for visitation, both parties should have to abide or be held in contempt.
It is not fair to the other parent or the children to not pick them up when you are supposed to and I do not think it is any more damaging for the kids to be kept from one parent than to have one parent just not show up. The custodial parent should have rights and the priviledge to be able to count on this visitation time and make plans for their own life but can be left sitting, waiting and wondering while the other parent can opt to show up or not. Not fair.
What I do not understand is why a parent cannot be held in contempt for not picking up their children for visitation but a parent can be held in contempt for not allowing visitation. It's the exact same order. The Judge has ordered specific times for visitation, both parties should have to abide or be held in contempt.
It is not fair to the other parent or the children to not pick them up when you are supposed to and I do not think it is any more damaging for the kids to be kept from one parent than to have one parent just not show up. The custodial parent should have rights and the priviledge to be able to count on this visitation time and make plans for their own life but can be left sitting, waiting and wondering while the other parent can opt to show up or not. Not fair.