singlepapa43
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Iowa
Hi. I am a single father with custody of our two kids, 8 and 11. Prior to divorce my ex moved 12 hours away to Ohio. The decree states I have to pick up kids from her visits in Ohio after Christmas and Summer visits. She has paid $0 support for two and a half years, and claims one child on taxes. A 252H hearing is scheduled December 7th to establish a support order. She claims to be unemployed, has a bachelors degree, and lives with boyfriend. She recently moved to Michigan, but drop off location is the same for visits. My problem is, I can't afford the trip to pick up the kids at Christmas. The financial effects of the divorce and raising kids alone pushed me into bankruptcy this year, and I am struggling to keep our home from foreclosure. She refuses of course to return them after her visit. Would I be in contempt if I do not allow her to take them across the country and I have no way to get them home? My only vehicle is my work van with 200,000 miles on it so I have to spring for rental car, hotel, and gas which is about $750 total. I won't be able to get the kids anything for Christmas if forced to make the trip. What can I do? I want them to see their mother but this situation is making victims of the children and I because of her choices. She refuses to even tell me WHERE the kids will be during her visits since she moved to a new state last Summer during her visit.
Hi. I am a single father with custody of our two kids, 8 and 11. Prior to divorce my ex moved 12 hours away to Ohio. The decree states I have to pick up kids from her visits in Ohio after Christmas and Summer visits. She has paid $0 support for two and a half years, and claims one child on taxes. A 252H hearing is scheduled December 7th to establish a support order. She claims to be unemployed, has a bachelors degree, and lives with boyfriend. She recently moved to Michigan, but drop off location is the same for visits. My problem is, I can't afford the trip to pick up the kids at Christmas. The financial effects of the divorce and raising kids alone pushed me into bankruptcy this year, and I am struggling to keep our home from foreclosure. She refuses of course to return them after her visit. Would I be in contempt if I do not allow her to take them across the country and I have no way to get them home? My only vehicle is my work van with 200,000 miles on it so I have to spring for rental car, hotel, and gas which is about $750 total. I won't be able to get the kids anything for Christmas if forced to make the trip. What can I do? I want them to see their mother but this situation is making victims of the children and I because of her choices. She refuses to even tell me WHERE the kids will be during her visits since she moved to a new state last Summer during her visit.
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