82nd Airborne
Junior Member
North Carolina
I was awarded primary custody of our two daughters but in the mother's court ordered visitation, the judge awarded her liberal visitation. The mother now lives two states over in Georgia. The judge said the mother will have a rolling every 3 week visitation. I will have the girls two weekends and on the third weekend I am to take them a portion of the way to their mom's house in Ga. She also is awarded teacher workdays,spring breaks, Every other tgiving and Christmas along with the entire summer. I explained to the mom that my interpretation was that we just go to the calendar first and mark off every third weekend then go back and add in all of the extra visitation days. I explained to her that this may sometimes mean that I will pick the girls up from visitation with her and the very next weekend be bringing them right back to her because of the continued counting of the 3 weeks even in the midst of any extra visits.
EXAMPLE: her 3rd weekend was March 27, 2015. Spring break in NC where the girls go to school was April 3-12 ( her awarded visitation). I explained to her that her rotating 3 weeks means that I bring them back to her Friday April 17, 2015. She says no because spring break made the 3 week start over. I told her that no where in the order does it state that holidays make the rotation start over. To cover my butt I will drive the girls down this afternoon BUT she says she will not be there until May first. Is she wrong? Am I wrong? What should I do because I do not want to be in contempt. I really want to be in compliance.
I was awarded primary custody of our two daughters but in the mother's court ordered visitation, the judge awarded her liberal visitation. The mother now lives two states over in Georgia. The judge said the mother will have a rolling every 3 week visitation. I will have the girls two weekends and on the third weekend I am to take them a portion of the way to their mom's house in Ga. She also is awarded teacher workdays,spring breaks, Every other tgiving and Christmas along with the entire summer. I explained to the mom that my interpretation was that we just go to the calendar first and mark off every third weekend then go back and add in all of the extra visitation days. I explained to her that this may sometimes mean that I will pick the girls up from visitation with her and the very next weekend be bringing them right back to her because of the continued counting of the 3 weeks even in the midst of any extra visits.
EXAMPLE: her 3rd weekend was March 27, 2015. Spring break in NC where the girls go to school was April 3-12 ( her awarded visitation). I explained to her that her rotating 3 weeks means that I bring them back to her Friday April 17, 2015. She says no because spring break made the 3 week start over. I told her that no where in the order does it state that holidays make the rotation start over. To cover my butt I will drive the girls down this afternoon BUT she says she will not be there until May first. Is she wrong? Am I wrong? What should I do because I do not want to be in contempt. I really want to be in compliance.