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11-06-2009, 12:44 PM
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11-06-2009, 12:44 PM
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__________________ That's exackly how I do it.  |
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#33
11-06-2009, 12:48 PM
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| It all started after he came back from Iraq after we already had kids. So don't judge me! |
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11-06-2009, 12:49 PM
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| I don't get why you say I am trying to keep them from him. If that was the case then I wouldn't be taking them to him. When are you taking them? I just know how he was with out children while we were together. He is not a very good father, and has a problem with drinking at times. You chose him to be the father. You even allowed him to adopt your first child. Now he isn't good enough? I do think that is grounds for me to want to make sure that I keep custody of them. Would you want your children around that, no I'm sure you wouldn't. You have allowed it. A judge will want to know why now that he isn't good enough, but when you had him adopt your first child you felt he was father material. You also had a child with him. I could just keep them and not let him see them at all because of that very reason. I am not doing that. I do not feel it is a safe place for my children to be 24/7 365 days a year. No, you couldn't do that. All he has to do is file for custody, and he will receive some form if it, regardless of how you feel. He is the legal father of those kids, and when you file for divorce in January, you can expect just that to happen, if he hasn't filed for divorce where he lives before that, which he can do. If people don't understand that I am just trying to make sure they are safe then don't even reply to my post. I do want them to see their father and have a relationship with him. They do need that! I do not think it makes me a bad person to want to keep custody of them, which is what everyone here is trying to make me out to be. I come here for advice and get almost nothing but problems and calling me names. You were given advice. The fact that you didn't like the advice doesn't take away from the fact that it was given to you. I don't recall anyone calling you names. I am just thinking about the safety of my children. The same thing that everyone else here would do also! He suffers from PTSD and I don't think that is something they need to be with on a daily basis! Call me bad, or whatever I don't care. I just want my children safe and I think that makes me a great mother. If I didn't care then I would let them just go and not worry about it. So STOP saying I am keeping them from seeing him. He could have came here to see them if he wanted. I wouldn't have stopped him. I even asked him to come down back in August and he said he was way to busy. You are the one who moved with the children. You should be the one providing the transportation, not him. If you honestly want the children to see their father, than take them to see him. You can tell everyone you want the children to see their father all you want, but until your actions actually show that, it's nothing more than hot air. Last edited by mdgtfrmhll; 11-06-2009 at 12:59 PM. |
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#35
11-06-2009, 12:58 PM
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| BTW if you do receive custody be prepared to pay all travel expenses for the children since you moved.
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11-06-2009, 04:15 PM
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__________________ ~A 8 a.m. bus-stop conversation~ "So Lil'Blue...Did you like the DVDs I got for you at the library?" "Yes...I did!" "Did you learn any interesting facts about the animals on the movie (Nation Geographic)?" "Yes...I did learn interesting things!" "Would you share with me an interesting fact?" "Wellll....I learned that Naked Mole Rats are WICKED naked!" ~~~~~~~ |
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11-06-2009, 04:21 PM
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I will use anything within my means to make sure that one doesn't resurface  (and don't even get me started with Jolly Roger....)
__________________ ***************************** When you can't bear something but it goes on anyway, the person who survives isn't you anymore; you've changed and become someone else, a new person, the one who did bear it after all. — Austin Grossman Quote:
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11-06-2009, 04:39 PM
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11-06-2009, 05:17 PM
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__________________ ~A 8 a.m. bus-stop conversation~ "So Lil'Blue...Did you like the DVDs I got for you at the library?" "Yes...I did!" "Did you learn any interesting facts about the animals on the movie (Nation Geographic)?" "Yes...I did learn interesting things!" "Would you share with me an interesting fact?" "Wellll....I learned that Naked Mole Rats are WICKED naked!" ~~~~~~~ |
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#40
11-06-2009, 05:17 PM
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Don't worry, Bella...I'm not actually propositioning you. I've just had that song stuck in my head since Adam Ant was mentioned.
__________________ It's not a slam at you when people are rude -- it's a slam at the people they've met before. -- F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Last Tycoon You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, The Princess Bride |
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#41
11-06-2009, 05:19 PM
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Me too...
__________________ ~A 8 a.m. bus-stop conversation~ "So Lil'Blue...Did you like the DVDs I got for you at the library?" "Yes...I did!" "Did you learn any interesting facts about the animals on the movie (Nation Geographic)?" "Yes...I did learn interesting things!" "Would you share with me an interesting fact?" "Wellll....I learned that Naked Mole Rats are WICKED naked!" ~~~~~~~ |
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#42
11-06-2009, 05:21 PM
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Adam Ant was NOT responsible for that "strip for me" monstrosity (That would be Man Parrish) Adam has done some dodgy things in the past but c'mon...give the dude a break
__________________ ***************************** When you can't bear something but it goes on anyway, the person who survives isn't you anymore; you've changed and become someone else, a new person, the one who did bear it after all. — Austin Grossman Quote:
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#43
11-06-2009, 05:21 PM
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(with tonic and a slice of lime, thanks!)
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#44
11-06-2009, 05:34 PM
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Maybe you've blocked it from memory because the BBC banned it. Prudes. ETA: Googled Man Parrish. Definitely not the same song. The Adam Ant one is positively cerebral by comparison.
__________________ It's not a slam at you when people are rude -- it's a slam at the people they've met before. -- F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Last Tycoon You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, The Princess Bride Last edited by proud_parent; 11-06-2009 at 05:42 PM. |
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11-06-2009, 05:46 PM
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Good heavens Quote:
*Snort*
__________________ ***************************** When you can't bear something but it goes on anyway, the person who survives isn't you anymore; you've changed and become someone else, a new person, the one who did bear it after all. — Austin Grossman Quote:
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