NEWMOMMY315
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? CT.
I AM PREGNANT AND DUE ON THE 15TH OF MARCH. THE FATHER OF THE CHILD JUST GOT OUT OF JAIL(FOR A DUI/4 MONTHS), HAS TWO OTHER CHILDREN HE PAYS CHILD SUPPORT FOR. WELL, WILL BE PAYING AGAIN AS SOON AS HE FINDS A JOB WHO WILL TAKE A FELON NOW. HE SEEMS UNINTERESTED NOW IN PROVIDING ANY CARE FOR THE CHILD AND HE HAS SPOKEN ABOUT SIGNING HIS RIGHTS OVER. TO BE HONEST WITH YOU HE IS 35 YEARS OLD AND IM NOT TOO SURE I WANT HIM TO HAVE ANY CONTACT WITH THE CHILD CONSIDERING THE ACTIONS HE WAS TAKING BEFORE HE WENT TO JAIL KNOWING I WAS PREGNANT. HE BECAME ABUSIVE PHYSICALLY AND STARTED TO ABUSE ALCOHOL TERRIBALLY!1. IF HE SIGNS OVER HIS RIGHTS DOES SOMEONE ELSE HAVE TO ADOPT THE CHILD? OR CAN HE SIGN OVER RIGHTS WITHOUT ADOPTION?
2. IF HIS RIGHTS ARE SIGNED OVER WITHOUT AN ADOPTION WILL HE STILL HAVE TO PAY ANY CHILD SUPPORT?
3. I REALLY DONT FEEL LIKE GOING TO COURT 20 TIMES A YEAR TO CHANGE THE AMOUNT OF CHILD SUPPORT BECAUSE HE CANT KEEP A JOB, SO SHOULD I LET HIM SIGN OVER HIS RIGHTS AND NOT WORRY ABOUT IT? I AM WORKING TWO JOBS RIGHT NOW AND WILL HAVE MY PARENTS HELP THANKFULLY.
4. SHOULD HE PUT HIS NAME ON THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE EVEN IF HE HAS OR HAS NOT DECIDED TO SIGN OVER HIS RIGHTS?
5. AND FINALLY WHAT QUALIFICATIONS ARE THERE TO SIGN YOUR RIGHTS OVER IF NO ONE IS ADOPTING?
THANK YOU FOR YOUR INPUT IT IS GREATLY APPRECIATED. THIS IS ALL NEW FOR ME.
I AM PREGNANT AND DUE ON THE 15TH OF MARCH. THE FATHER OF THE CHILD JUST GOT OUT OF JAIL(FOR A DUI/4 MONTHS), HAS TWO OTHER CHILDREN HE PAYS CHILD SUPPORT FOR. WELL, WILL BE PAYING AGAIN AS SOON AS HE FINDS A JOB WHO WILL TAKE A FELON NOW. HE SEEMS UNINTERESTED NOW IN PROVIDING ANY CARE FOR THE CHILD AND HE HAS SPOKEN ABOUT SIGNING HIS RIGHTS OVER. TO BE HONEST WITH YOU HE IS 35 YEARS OLD AND IM NOT TOO SURE I WANT HIM TO HAVE ANY CONTACT WITH THE CHILD CONSIDERING THE ACTIONS HE WAS TAKING BEFORE HE WENT TO JAIL KNOWING I WAS PREGNANT. HE BECAME ABUSIVE PHYSICALLY AND STARTED TO ABUSE ALCOHOL TERRIBALLY!1. IF HE SIGNS OVER HIS RIGHTS DOES SOMEONE ELSE HAVE TO ADOPT THE CHILD? OR CAN HE SIGN OVER RIGHTS WITHOUT ADOPTION?
2. IF HIS RIGHTS ARE SIGNED OVER WITHOUT AN ADOPTION WILL HE STILL HAVE TO PAY ANY CHILD SUPPORT?
3. I REALLY DONT FEEL LIKE GOING TO COURT 20 TIMES A YEAR TO CHANGE THE AMOUNT OF CHILD SUPPORT BECAUSE HE CANT KEEP A JOB, SO SHOULD I LET HIM SIGN OVER HIS RIGHTS AND NOT WORRY ABOUT IT? I AM WORKING TWO JOBS RIGHT NOW AND WILL HAVE MY PARENTS HELP THANKFULLY.
4. SHOULD HE PUT HIS NAME ON THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE EVEN IF HE HAS OR HAS NOT DECIDED TO SIGN OVER HIS RIGHTS?
5. AND FINALLY WHAT QUALIFICATIONS ARE THERE TO SIGN YOUR RIGHTS OVER IF NO ONE IS ADOPTING?
THANK YOU FOR YOUR INPUT IT IS GREATLY APPRECIATED. THIS IS ALL NEW FOR ME.
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