What is the name of your state? AZ, but CO has jurisdiction
Situation...
Dad lives in AZ, mother lives in IN, but CO has jurisdiction, as that is where mother used to live and court orders are.
Mother and Dad were never married. Mother has physical custody of their son, but Dad and Mother have shared parenting, with Dad having visitation roughly 10-12 weeks/year (due to distance). Dad actively involved with son, as much as he can be, with resistance from Mother who is uncooperative at best. She has threatened to deny visitation several times, has interfered with phone contact repeatedly (court orders allow for liberal phone contact but all she has is a cell phone that doesn't have voice mail and she rarely answers it and doesn't tell son when dad calls or have son call dad).
Son will be 12 in Feb 2007 and desperately wants to live with Dad. Son is afraid to tell Mom for fear of getting into trouble with her and knows she will make him miserable. We know if/when Mom finds out, she will not agree to it as she believes she will have custody until he's 18 no matter what. Experience tells us she's in it for the child support, and it seems largely that is all she cares about. Son is not happy with living mom and step-dad, but there is nothing major enough for courts to change custody, except his desire to live with dad. He hates going back to mom, when he visits. Son expresses his feelings about Mom and his desire to live with Dad ALL the time to everyone, except Mom. Dad does not sway son or push him on the issue, it is truly the sons wishes to live with dad. He tells everyone he can't wait until he's old enough so he can tell the judge he wants to be with Dad.
I know in certain states the child can be 12 and his voice is heard on where he chooses to live. Does anyone know CO courts to know age they listen to child or possibly the procedure to get his voice heard? I've heard stories of children who go to visit the parent they want to live with and say they want to stay and there is nothing the other parent can do...but is this true and how can it be that easy?
Any thoughts would be appreciated
Situation...
Dad lives in AZ, mother lives in IN, but CO has jurisdiction, as that is where mother used to live and court orders are.
Mother and Dad were never married. Mother has physical custody of their son, but Dad and Mother have shared parenting, with Dad having visitation roughly 10-12 weeks/year (due to distance). Dad actively involved with son, as much as he can be, with resistance from Mother who is uncooperative at best. She has threatened to deny visitation several times, has interfered with phone contact repeatedly (court orders allow for liberal phone contact but all she has is a cell phone that doesn't have voice mail and she rarely answers it and doesn't tell son when dad calls or have son call dad).
Son will be 12 in Feb 2007 and desperately wants to live with Dad. Son is afraid to tell Mom for fear of getting into trouble with her and knows she will make him miserable. We know if/when Mom finds out, she will not agree to it as she believes she will have custody until he's 18 no matter what. Experience tells us she's in it for the child support, and it seems largely that is all she cares about. Son is not happy with living mom and step-dad, but there is nothing major enough for courts to change custody, except his desire to live with dad. He hates going back to mom, when he visits. Son expresses his feelings about Mom and his desire to live with Dad ALL the time to everyone, except Mom. Dad does not sway son or push him on the issue, it is truly the sons wishes to live with dad. He tells everyone he can't wait until he's old enough so he can tell the judge he wants to be with Dad.
I know in certain states the child can be 12 and his voice is heard on where he chooses to live. Does anyone know CO courts to know age they listen to child or possibly the procedure to get his voice heard? I've heard stories of children who go to visit the parent they want to live with and say they want to stay and there is nothing the other parent can do...but is this true and how can it be that easy?
Any thoughts would be appreciated