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doggie844
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What is the name of your state? ohio
I have 2 kids that have activities that they want to attend a few times a year that fall on the non-cust. visitation. birthday parties with their friends, church events,etc. he makes them feel guilty whenever they have something going on on"his time". they love sports and band and stay active. their grades are a's and b's. they are 10 and 13. he has told them that he wants them to not play anything in in the summer as it is an inconvenience to him. he only comes to watch them when it is his time but because it is stated that he has to take them to their activities. they don't want to quit what they love to do but yet he is making them feel guilty and a choice of, ' do you want to do that or spend time with me"? he is also an alcoholic. i found out that my 13 yr. old was going to a counselor at school for it. my questions are: if he is drinking whan he comes to pick them up, can i deny visitation? and if he leaves and i have no proof, if he goes to court and says i denied him the right, what then? all i want is the kids to be kids and be safe. also, can they at what age state that they don't want to go because of activities,etc. they are scared to tell him when he has them they don't want to drive with him when he's been drinking for fear of him getting mad at them. what can i do so that they don't have to deal with any adult issues. him and his wife now smoke and the kids don't like it. i have written letters to him asking on behalf of the kids not to smoke around them and he ignores it. thanks for your time.
I have 2 kids that have activities that they want to attend a few times a year that fall on the non-cust. visitation. birthday parties with their friends, church events,etc. he makes them feel guilty whenever they have something going on on"his time". they love sports and band and stay active. their grades are a's and b's. they are 10 and 13. he has told them that he wants them to not play anything in in the summer as it is an inconvenience to him. he only comes to watch them when it is his time but because it is stated that he has to take them to their activities. they don't want to quit what they love to do but yet he is making them feel guilty and a choice of, ' do you want to do that or spend time with me"? he is also an alcoholic. i found out that my 13 yr. old was going to a counselor at school for it. my questions are: if he is drinking whan he comes to pick them up, can i deny visitation? and if he leaves and i have no proof, if he goes to court and says i denied him the right, what then? all i want is the kids to be kids and be safe. also, can they at what age state that they don't want to go because of activities,etc. they are scared to tell him when he has them they don't want to drive with him when he's been drinking for fear of him getting mad at them. what can i do so that they don't have to deal with any adult issues. him and his wife now smoke and the kids don't like it. i have written letters to him asking on behalf of the kids not to smoke around them and he ignores it. thanks for your time.