Hi Nurse,Hello CJane,
I wanted to clarify what you say you don't understand about my post this summer, and now. Back in the summer, my son was excited about taking the medication, and it was the first thing he would do upon getting up for breakfast. The change of routine with going to school, and the fact that his father continuously tells him that he does not need the medication, has gotten him out of the habit of taking the medication while at his fathers house. I thought my son was ready this summer to be responsible to take his own medication (although I expected him to need frequent reminders at first, until he developed a routine). Unfortunately, he has not been responsible enough. He will even go so far as to lie to me and tell me he has taken his med, and when I check (count the pills), I find that he hasn't. I guess I was overly optimistic when stating he would/could be responsible for taking his own meds. So yes, that has changed. The sarcasm on this board is unbelievable.
Does your son have side effects that he complains about as a result of the medicine? I'm trying to comprehend why he would lie about taking the meds. My stepdaughter has also been diagnosed with ADD. She was 'hiding' the pills in her jewelry box every once in awhile, and when she was confronted, she stated that the side effects were unbareable to her and she didn't like how the meds made her feel. She also used to try to use the meds as an excuse...when she took them, she attributed it to 'good' behavior and when she didn't take her pill, it was an excuse as to why she didn't do well on a test, or was more aggressive than normal, etc. We nipped that in the bud quickly. The medicine is to help them cope and focus, not an excuse of why they don't do well.
However, I couldn't agree with casa more, that consistency is KEY in success.
After years of trial and error, we found a medicine patch (daytrana) that has worked wonders. She is responsible for putting on the patch in the morning and taking it off in the afternoon. The downfall if she doesn't take the patch off at the correct time, is it keeps her stimulated to the point of not falling asleep with ease. One restless night was all it took for her. She has ALWAYS remembered to take it off at the right time in the afternoon, and it eliminates the arguement of having a child be responsible for administering meds themselves. Just a suggestion based on my previous 5 years of dealing with this diagnosis.
ETA: Ok, I just read where you said he doesn't have the side effects any longer, which is good. How does he feel about taking them? Does he notice a difference? I'm just helping to look for an incentive on how he can want to take these without the assistance of his dad. Unfortunately, based on my expereince, ignorance has a lot to do with why some (I said some, not all ~ please be nice!) parents don't want to use medication on children with ADD/ADHD. I know b/c I was one of those people. I tried and tried to talk to my hubby about other alternatives for my sd. Until I did research. With her, I fully support it now that I see the difference. If this is just simply a parent who has no interest in being an active participant, I would do as casa suggested, and take it to mediation...b/c it probably branches out to beyond the medication.
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