coolmomof4
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When ncp doesn't bring home child after visit
What is the name of your state? GA
Bio-mom from NC picked up child on Friday and drove him back to NC for summer visit. The order says she is responsible for all summer visit transportation but we agreed 3 months ago to meet her halfway on the return trip this Saturday. (She can keep him until Mon but decided that she would give up 2 1/2 days of visit to have help with transportation).
Bio-mom called today and tried to get me to agree to have my parents drive him home for her. They live about 30 minutes away from her in NC. My parents don't want to and shouldn't have to. They are getting back from vacation themselves on Friday.
So now, she's saying either we have to allow him to fly home or pick him up in NC ourselves. She also did this to us last year and my parents ended up driving him home for her (12 hr round trip).
Our attorney advised us to not agree to airline travel outside of court for many reasons. We do not have a problem with the airline travel, but there are so many problems with the current situation, she feels we should hold off and let her take us to court over it, then bring up all of the other issues in response to her motion for modification.
So if he isn't home on Monday, what should we do? Call the police? Because of the situation being like it is, we don't want to continue to give in to everything she wants, such as driving to NC to pick him up when she should be doing it herself and we already made plans to be away from home for half a day to meet her in SC Saturday.
Any advice would be appreciated!
What is the name of your state? GA
Bio-mom from NC picked up child on Friday and drove him back to NC for summer visit. The order says she is responsible for all summer visit transportation but we agreed 3 months ago to meet her halfway on the return trip this Saturday. (She can keep him until Mon but decided that she would give up 2 1/2 days of visit to have help with transportation).
Bio-mom called today and tried to get me to agree to have my parents drive him home for her. They live about 30 minutes away from her in NC. My parents don't want to and shouldn't have to. They are getting back from vacation themselves on Friday.
So now, she's saying either we have to allow him to fly home or pick him up in NC ourselves. She also did this to us last year and my parents ended up driving him home for her (12 hr round trip).
Our attorney advised us to not agree to airline travel outside of court for many reasons. We do not have a problem with the airline travel, but there are so many problems with the current situation, she feels we should hold off and let her take us to court over it, then bring up all of the other issues in response to her motion for modification.
So if he isn't home on Monday, what should we do? Call the police? Because of the situation being like it is, we don't want to continue to give in to everything she wants, such as driving to NC to pick him up when she should be doing it herself and we already made plans to be away from home for half a day to meet her in SC Saturday.
Any advice would be appreciated!
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