hannahpreggo16
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Washington
Hi my name is Hannah and I live in Spokane Washington. I am 16 and am 6 months pregnant. Please no lectures, I know, I am just looking for legal advice.
My mom and dad are divorced. I live with my mom and visit my dad in Nevada on most holidays and during the summer. I got pregnant when I was with my mom but didn't know about it until I was already with my dad for the summer. My stepmom and dad have been very supportive , but my mom is very religious and so she is very mad at me for having sex getting pregnant.
My mom keeps telling me that when the baby is born that I have to drop out of school to take care of the baby. She refuses to let me put my baby in any kind of daycare, she has always been a stay-at-home-mom and says that the baby should be raised by me only . She wouldn't sign me up for a school program made for teens who are pregnant or moms and made me go back to my regular high school. She won't talk to me about any plans for when the baby is born and when I try to talk she just tells me that "if you thought about that before maybe you wouldn't have been a slut."
I will be 17 when the baby is born, can I go live with my dad? Or do I get automatically emaciated when I have the baby? My stepmom said she would help with taking care of the baby so I can go to school and go to college too. I don't think that my mom can make me stay out of school when the baby is born but she says that since won't be 18 then she will have custody of the baby and not me. And that if I move out or leave that she can keep the baby She also said that if I don't live by her rules then she will kick me out and keep the baby. Is that true? I don't have any money for a lawyer but I do have some from babysitting and stuff and I want to be able to go to school and to college so that I can get a good job and take care of my baby Can my dad get custody of me if my mom won't let me go to school? I have no money to get my own house or anything and my mom said that if I try to move out now then she will just make me come back until I have the baby because she still has custody of me. I know I made mistakes but I think it would be a bigger mistake for me to not go to school anymore!
And oh yeah, my mom thinks that because the dad is 17 that he has no rights to the baby either, but does he? Or does his parents have guardianship of the baby because he is a miner? I am not allowed to talk to him and a few times his partents called my mom and she yelled at them that their son was satan's pawn to make me sin and that she was in charge of the baby so they can't see it.
Hi my name is Hannah and I live in Spokane Washington. I am 16 and am 6 months pregnant. Please no lectures, I know, I am just looking for legal advice.
My mom and dad are divorced. I live with my mom and visit my dad in Nevada on most holidays and during the summer. I got pregnant when I was with my mom but didn't know about it until I was already with my dad for the summer. My stepmom and dad have been very supportive , but my mom is very religious and so she is very mad at me for having sex getting pregnant.
My mom keeps telling me that when the baby is born that I have to drop out of school to take care of the baby. She refuses to let me put my baby in any kind of daycare, she has always been a stay-at-home-mom and says that the baby should be raised by me only . She wouldn't sign me up for a school program made for teens who are pregnant or moms and made me go back to my regular high school. She won't talk to me about any plans for when the baby is born and when I try to talk she just tells me that "if you thought about that before maybe you wouldn't have been a slut."
I will be 17 when the baby is born, can I go live with my dad? Or do I get automatically emaciated when I have the baby? My stepmom said she would help with taking care of the baby so I can go to school and go to college too. I don't think that my mom can make me stay out of school when the baby is born but she says that since won't be 18 then she will have custody of the baby and not me. And that if I move out or leave that she can keep the baby She also said that if I don't live by her rules then she will kick me out and keep the baby. Is that true? I don't have any money for a lawyer but I do have some from babysitting and stuff and I want to be able to go to school and to college so that I can get a good job and take care of my baby Can my dad get custody of me if my mom won't let me go to school? I have no money to get my own house or anything and my mom said that if I try to move out now then she will just make me come back until I have the baby because she still has custody of me. I know I made mistakes but I think it would be a bigger mistake for me to not go to school anymore!
And oh yeah, my mom thinks that because the dad is 17 that he has no rights to the baby either, but does he? Or does his parents have guardianship of the baby because he is a miner? I am not allowed to talk to him and a few times his partents called my mom and she yelled at them that their son was satan's pawn to make me sin and that she was in charge of the baby so they can't see it.