Look,
Men seem to go into some sort of daze when faced with losing wife/children.
everyone does, but men really seem to go into jello meld.
they don't sort things out fast enough, they think leaving the kids w/mom is the answer and they hope/believe either that mom will come back or they will get a fair shake in court.
all to often they do not.
an angry woman bent on retaliation can do you just as much damage as a controlling male still trying to control the mother of his children.
none of us know what this guy has been dealing with or thinking during this time, and yes, five months is (almost) established status quo.
so dad is behind the eight ball.
but mom got caught playing games and then took her toys, which included dad's children, and left.
and she's been spinning dad like a top every since.
he needs to get on it and find out what he can do for the sake of his kids.
Custodial parent is a hugely high shot. Kinda like military beer math, where one asks for a six pack for everyone in the company and is grateful for two per person.
and i didn't say it would be easy. but it is certainly worth a shot.
Men seem to go into some sort of daze when faced with losing wife/children.
everyone does, but men really seem to go into jello meld.
they don't sort things out fast enough, they think leaving the kids w/mom is the answer and they hope/believe either that mom will come back or they will get a fair shake in court.
all to often they do not.
an angry woman bent on retaliation can do you just as much damage as a controlling male still trying to control the mother of his children.
none of us know what this guy has been dealing with or thinking during this time, and yes, five months is (almost) established status quo.
so dad is behind the eight ball.
but mom got caught playing games and then took her toys, which included dad's children, and left.
and she's been spinning dad like a top every since.
he needs to get on it and find out what he can do for the sake of his kids.
Custodial parent is a hugely high shot. Kinda like military beer math, where one asks for a six pack for everyone in the company and is grateful for two per person.
and i didn't say it would be easy. but it is certainly worth a shot.