Will I get visitation because of my spouses's arrest

[thisisit2016]

texas

I am a mother of a 10 year old boy. My new husband and I have been fighting a lot and this has gotten back to my ex. My husband has trouble keeping things to himself when he is upset.

We also had an issue where a fight between us ended up with me tripping and falling and breaking a wrist. the doctor called the police and my husband has been arrested for a felony for aggravated assault.

My ex husband called an emergency hearing to get full custody of my son. I went to court last week and the judge said he wanted me to have a psych analysis to see if I had battered wife syndrome and would let me us know today (Monday) if he wanted supervised visit only for me until my test was done and a counselor met with my son.

I am wondering what my chances are....and IF it's monitored visits -- what would that look like?? Would it be just reduced visits or literally a court appointed person watching my every move in my home?

What should I expect?

 

[Zigner]

texas

I am a mother of a 10 year old boy. My new husband and I have been fighting a lot and this has gotten back to my ex. My husband has trouble keeping things to himself when he is upset.

We also had an issue where a fight between us ended up with me tripping and falling and breaking a wrist. the doctor called the police and my husband has been arrested for a felony for aggravated assault.

My ex husband called an emergency hearing to get full custody of my son. I went to court last week and the judge said he wanted me to have a psych analysis to see if I had battered wife syndrome and would let me us know today (Monday) if he wanted supervised visit only for me until my test was done and a counselor met with my son.

I am wondering what my chances are....and IF it's monitored visits -- what would that look like?? Would it be just reduced visits or literally a court appointed person watching my every move in my home?

What should I expect?

You really need an attorney - there's no way we can guess at the outcome of your matter.

 

[thisisit2016]

I have hired a lawyer...but I don't want to rack up the charges. I just wondered what visitation usually looks like?

Once a week? In my house? In my ex's house? What happens?

You really need an attorney - there's no way we can guess at the outcome of your matter.

 

[Zigner]

I have hired a lawyer...but I don't want to rack up the charges. I just wondered what visitation usually looks like?

Once a week? In my house? In my ex's house? What happens?

Again, there is no way we can guess as to what the outcome of YOUR case will be. There is no "usually" in matters such as yours - they are fact-specific matters.

 

[Proserpina]

texas

I am a mother of a 10 year old boy. My new husband and I have been fighting a lot and this has gotten back to my ex. My husband has trouble keeping things to himself when he is upset.

We also had an issue where a fight between us ended up with me tripping and falling and breaking a wrist. the doctor called the police and my husband has been arrested for a felony for aggravated assault.

My ex husband called an emergency hearing to get full custody of my son. I went to court last week and the judge said he wanted me to have a psych analysis to see if I had battered wife syndrome and would let me us know today (Monday) if he wanted supervised visit only for me until my test was done and a counselor met with my son.

I am wondering what my chances are....and IF it's monitored visits -- what would that look like?? Would it be just reduced visits or literally a court appointed person watching my every move in my home?

What should I expect?

Is this you? http://www.expertlaw.com/forums/showthread.php?t=195600

 

[Zigner]

Is this you? http://www.expertlaw.com/forums/showthread.php?t=195600

That's a scary read. This lady needs to get as far away from her monster of a husband as quickly as possible.

 

[Proserpina]

That's a scary read. This lady needs to get as far away from her monster of a husband as quickly as possible.

Scroll down - OG posted the thread over at the Men's Room.

It didn't get any better.

 

[mommyanme]

And back again thinking no one can remember this horror story
Stepdad did finally admit all the posts were his and not Mom's.

 

[stealth2]

texas

I am a mother of a 10 year old boy. My new husband and I have been fighting a lot and this has gotten back to my ex. My husband has trouble keeping things to himself when he is upset.

We also had an issue where a fight between us ended up with me tripping and falling and breaking a wrist. the doctor called the police and my husband has been arrested for a felony for aggravated assault.

My ex husband called an emergency hearing to get full custody of my son. I went to court last week and the judge said he wanted me to have a psych analysis to see if I had battered wife syndrome and would let me us know today (Monday) if he wanted supervised visit only for me until my test was done and a counselor met with my son.

I am wondering what my chances are....and IF it's monitored visits -- what would that look like?? Would it be just reduced visits or literally a court appointed person watching my every move in my home?

What should I expect?

You should expect to choose between your jerk husband and your son. The kid deserves a parent who will put him first. IF you choose your husband? Expect to see your son under supervision by someone else. Hopefully a third party who will not be swayed by your sob story.

And please - get your tubes tied. You should not spawn again.

 

[RRevak]

You should expect to choose between your jerk husband and your son. The kid deserves a parent who will put him first. IF you choose your husband? Expect to see your son under supervision by someone else. Hopefully a third party who will not be swayed by your sob story.

And please - get your tubes tied. You should not spawn again.

This. A thousand times this.

 

[stealth2]

We also had an issue where a fight between us ended up with me tripping and falling and breaking a wrist.

Wrist or finger? At least try to keep your story straight, little girl.

 

[Proserpina]

And expect the court to require that your husband is NEVER left alone with your child. Ever. Hell, he shouldn't be left alone with anyone.

 

[stealth2]

And expect the court to require that your husband is NEVER left alone with your child. Ever. Hell, he shouldn't be left alone with anyone.

As in - not even a goldfish.

 

[Ohiogal]

Haven't looked at the threads yet but I am guessing her husband is the heart surgeon who broke her hand and threatened to remove the child's heart from his chest for elbowing him? GO DAD GO!

Yep... so what I thought...

GO DAD GO. Mom, you need help. MAJOR FREAKING HELP. I hope you get it and leave your abusive spouse.

 

[Proserpina]

I'm hoping this is a troll, hoping for trollishness more than I ever have before.

Ever.

Unfortunately it seems to be a real situation.