So, you want to take a child out of the only home she's known? You want to uproot her from where she has been raised?
If you have as much experience as you say, then you KNOW that with young children consistency and routine are so very important at this age! And you want to change all that??
Please for the love of all that is Holy, think of what is in the best interest of the child.
Just because you can take custody doesn't mean you should.
Just because something is legal doesn't mean it's ethically and morally correct.[/QUOTE
I do love my niece dearly. I am sure she is being taken care by her foster parents and will not say any ill statements about them. I try to be a fair person and positive. I hear all the post but I am grateful I have a strong support of family, friends, and coworkers during this difficult time and that means more than anything else. We including her father want my niece to come home where she can be raised with her family. Her father heart aches for her everyday, I have seen him cry over knowing he may not never have the chance to go to the park with his daughter, see her grow up and go to college, and may never have the chance to give her away one day at her wedding. We may never see her ride a bike for the first time, lose her first tooth, or even tie her first shoe. at family gathering we will always have someone missing and will always wonder how she is doing, what she is doing, she will never sit at thanksgiving dinner with us, and never go anywhere with us. We will miss her presence and miss her while she grows daily. I think about my niece everyday, have thought about her all the time since she was a born. God knows if I knew about the situation I would have been present at the door steps of the courthouse when she was removed. No one knows and can only make assumptions about this situation. Some may say that is selfish but if you have any niece or nephew these are the things you look forward to seeing and being part of. I do care about her well being and I do want her to be loved and happy and thrive daily. I do care about her because when I see her my heart melt and I just want to take care and love her more. We want her to be part of my family too so we can love her too.