WISCONSIN
NOTE: Using a friend's account.
BACKGROUND
I'm the husband. 10 yr marriage, 1 minor child who has been living w/mom but most weekends are with me. Last summer was w/mom but the majority of this summer is to be with me.
Physically separated by 200+ miles (but both parties in Wisc) for approx 1-1/2 years. Divorce was filed for over 6 months ago in her county. We both agreed to go pro se in order to keep things amicable. Parenting classes completed, but financial disclosure & custody has not been.
We attempted mediation & working on finances and custody ourselves, but were particularly unable to agree on how much time for custody between locations. I am not fighting the primary being w/wife. But I am instead trying to get closer to the 50% that I feel is equitable, and the time my daughter & I need together.
Our mediator likewise mentioned the 50% being reasonable. Once alone & with paperwork in hand, her offer to me was less than 25%. I completely declined that offer. Things have since gone better with regard to an equitable arrangement, but it is still not close to 50%.
CURRENTLY
I have just received a notice of retainer from an attorney hired by her. The letter further requests we meet with the Family Court Commissioner in her county this week. Her counsel will be there, but I am unsure to what extent.
QUESTION
Do I need to go in there with counsel myself? Due to the quick turn around on this (2 weeks), is it reasonable to request a reschedule of this meeting?
I feel wholly confident that I can find good representation within a week, even though it is out of my area. But I am fairly certain that retaining that counsel AND getting them to a meeting this week is simply not doable.
Thank you in advance for help. It is very much appreciated!What is the name of your state?
NOTE: Using a friend's account.
BACKGROUND
I'm the husband. 10 yr marriage, 1 minor child who has been living w/mom but most weekends are with me. Last summer was w/mom but the majority of this summer is to be with me.
Physically separated by 200+ miles (but both parties in Wisc) for approx 1-1/2 years. Divorce was filed for over 6 months ago in her county. We both agreed to go pro se in order to keep things amicable. Parenting classes completed, but financial disclosure & custody has not been.
We attempted mediation & working on finances and custody ourselves, but were particularly unable to agree on how much time for custody between locations. I am not fighting the primary being w/wife. But I am instead trying to get closer to the 50% that I feel is equitable, and the time my daughter & I need together.
Our mediator likewise mentioned the 50% being reasonable. Once alone & with paperwork in hand, her offer to me was less than 25%. I completely declined that offer. Things have since gone better with regard to an equitable arrangement, but it is still not close to 50%.
CURRENTLY
I have just received a notice of retainer from an attorney hired by her. The letter further requests we meet with the Family Court Commissioner in her county this week. Her counsel will be there, but I am unsure to what extent.
QUESTION
Do I need to go in there with counsel myself? Due to the quick turn around on this (2 weeks), is it reasonable to request a reschedule of this meeting?
I feel wholly confident that I can find good representation within a week, even though it is out of my area. But I am fairly certain that retaining that counsel AND getting them to a meeting this week is simply not doable.
Thank you in advance for help. It is very much appreciated!What is the name of your state?