CJane
Senior Member
What is the name of your state? MO
I'm working on revising my proposed parenting plan for the baby. Remember that his father is only requesting about 10 days a year, and only from 9am to 5pm.
My question is this: His proposal states that each parent is to pick the child up at the other parent's house. I have little issue with this in theory, but I have no idea where he lives or will be living in the future (past habits indicate that he moves a LOT) nor do I really have any idea where I'll be living a year from now since I'm renting and therefore at the whim of a landlord.
SO... is it considered generally acceptable to word things in a fashion similar to this?
I guess I need to know if this is reasonable, acceptable and not against public policy (just for BB )
I'm working on revising my proposed parenting plan for the baby. Remember that his father is only requesting about 10 days a year, and only from 9am to 5pm.
My question is this: His proposal states that each parent is to pick the child up at the other parent's house. I have little issue with this in theory, but I have no idea where he lives or will be living in the future (past habits indicate that he moves a LOT) nor do I really have any idea where I'll be living a year from now since I'm renting and therefore at the whim of a landlord.
SO... is it considered generally acceptable to word things in a fashion similar to this?
There are several reasons I'd like to include this, namely that the visitation he's requesting ends one hour prior to the visitation my other children have with their father. If he lives 40 miles from me in the opposite direction from the girls' dad... there's no way I can pick up the baby and still pick up the girls even close to on time.Provided the parties reside within 35 miles of each other (this number is rather arbitrary) Father shall pick the child up at the mother's residence at the beginning of his parenting time and mother shall pick the child up at Father's residence at the end of his parenting time. If the parties reside more than 35 miles apart, they shall meet at a mutually agreed upon half-way point.
I guess I need to know if this is reasonable, acceptable and not against public policy (just for BB )