What is the name of your state? Missouri
My wife is suing for divorce. We have 3 children. In mediation, we worked out a parenting plan for 50 percent of time with each parent. But Missouri's child support formula does not adequately address this, as the formula still gives a large chunk to whichever parent is considered "custodial." She is still anticipating getting that big chunk from me, only because she filed first. I have maintained the family home and she moved out to a rental. We are practicing the 50/50, although because of her work conflicts I have had the kids more like 70/30. My attorney is suggessting she and I agree to share expenses like clothing school supplies, activities, etc. with a small amount of money extra to help her with the kids since I earn more than her. I doubt she will ever agree to this because gettting the big child support check to subsidize life with her new boyfriendd is why she divorced me in the first place. Is the only alternative to go for full custody at trial?
My wife is suing for divorce. We have 3 children. In mediation, we worked out a parenting plan for 50 percent of time with each parent. But Missouri's child support formula does not adequately address this, as the formula still gives a large chunk to whichever parent is considered "custodial." She is still anticipating getting that big chunk from me, only because she filed first. I have maintained the family home and she moved out to a rental. We are practicing the 50/50, although because of her work conflicts I have had the kids more like 70/30. My attorney is suggessting she and I agree to share expenses like clothing school supplies, activities, etc. with a small amount of money extra to help her with the kids since I earn more than her. I doubt she will ever agree to this because gettting the big child support check to subsidize life with her new boyfriendd is why she divorced me in the first place. Is the only alternative to go for full custody at trial?