staplesfella
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? KY
My ex and I share custody 50/50. We don't go to court, it's just something we work out between us. I signed the birth certificate at the births of our two children.
She has severe health issues that keep her going in and out of the hospital. She doesn't work and has no insurance. So she went to apply for medicaid and the caseworker denied her to get medicaid because she shares custody with me. She gave up on that for a while. Then her health issues prevented her from getting a job, she filed for disability just this past month.
Some financial person at the hospital told her that because we don't have a court order, that means she has sole custody of the children. She told her to go back to the medicaid office and tell the worker there that she has sole custody so she can get the medical card. My ex told me that it doesn't matter that we divide the kids time 50/50 because we don't have a court order, so that means she has sole.
I didn't have a problem with this because I understand she needs the health insurance...until I got served with child support papers. I called the child support office and told them we divide our time 50/50. She asked to see a court order and I told her we don't have one.
Is my ex correct? Does not having a court order mean she has sole custody even though I signed the birth certificate and have the kids half the time?
My ex and I share custody 50/50. We don't go to court, it's just something we work out between us. I signed the birth certificate at the births of our two children.
She has severe health issues that keep her going in and out of the hospital. She doesn't work and has no insurance. So she went to apply for medicaid and the caseworker denied her to get medicaid because she shares custody with me. She gave up on that for a while. Then her health issues prevented her from getting a job, she filed for disability just this past month.
Some financial person at the hospital told her that because we don't have a court order, that means she has sole custody of the children. She told her to go back to the medicaid office and tell the worker there that she has sole custody so she can get the medical card. My ex told me that it doesn't matter that we divide the kids time 50/50 because we don't have a court order, so that means she has sole.
I didn't have a problem with this because I understand she needs the health insurance...until I got served with child support papers. I called the child support office and told them we divide our time 50/50. She asked to see a court order and I told her we don't have one.
Is my ex correct? Does not having a court order mean she has sole custody even though I signed the birth certificate and have the kids half the time?