To all regular posters

[Gracie3787]

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? Exhaustion and sadness

I found this site and joined last August. I couldn't understand why so many of the long time posters seemed to be so sarcastic, but after reading and posting for the last 6 months, I now understand.

Maybe I have an unrealistic view of parenthood in general, but until I found this site I had no idea of just how many selfish, down right unfit parents there are out there. I will never understand why so many parents, NCPs and CPs alike, care more about their own anger and wants, than they do about their kids.

I began on this site by asking questions, which I learned alot from. Then I began to answer other's questions simply because I love to help people. (before I became disabled I worked as a CNA/HHA and planned to be a LPN). I feel good knowing that I have helped some people, but the selfishness and seeing how many kids are being hurt has become just too much for me. So I probably won't be posting anymore. I feel bad that there might be more people I could help, but I just have to trust that someone else who is very familiar with Florida family law can help them.

I do want to thank the posters who have given me help and encouragement, I have learned alot from all of you, and I truly appreciate it.

I suffer from Bi- polar, and maybe I'm just going into a depressive episode, so maybe I will check in on the site once in a while to see how things are going for the regular posters.

I wish the best for all of you, and thanks again.
Gracie

 

[rmet4nzkx]

Best of luck and hope you will be back when you fel better. You have gone through a lot and that is no doubt taking a toll and it would not be unusual to experience a depressive cycle. Please take care of yourself and check with your doctor, your medications may require adjustment. Take Care

 

[BL]

Gracie , if you ever feel up to it it , ask to sit in on a few Custody/Visitation hearings .

Judges really get irritated over the same nonsense of some of these cases .
Judges can be harsh .

So , for the Posters that come here whining , they would hear the same or worse admonishments from the Judge in Court.
For these posters who think we are rude , do you think we lose any sleep over them ? I doubt if Judges do .