Yeah...Including their father...Congratulations..THANK GOD I am raising them to be independant and not to rely on a man to take care of them
While I understand your point the last sentence I would disagree with. Some people do disagree with it -- usually moms who don't feel they are getting enough CS.sorry, why is it if a woman has plastic surgery after a bad marriage and having kids, its wrong? i know your story is about more than that, but give me a break, as long as the kids have clothes, food and love and healthly, who cares if she has plastic surgery. men go out and get a new woman or a new car and no one says that is wrong.
You don't get it. You were ordered to pay the 9k because you were NOT PAYING YOUR COURT ORDERED SUPPORT. The braces are separate. You are legally obligated per your court order to pay for them. It is a separate thing. Her boob job is none of your business. None. She was OWED the 9k and during the time you decided your daughter didn't need to eat, your ex was solely supporting her. Perhaps you should not be having children that you can't support. Stop procreating.I appreciate the feedback but this is bigger than you can imagine. Bottom line for me is I do pay child support and sleep with a clear conscious at night. You obviously missed that I did in fact give her $9000 in back child support which she claimed would be used for braces last year. When in fact she took the money and purchased new breasts. Now here we are a year later and she is asking that I pay for the braces. Which I have confirmed through this forum I will need to do, that's fine. My issue is my current financial struggle while she rides the gravy train. The woman has no job and can not keep a job longer than 2 weeks!! Yes, I will pursue returning to court because if I don't I'm the idiot who let her get away with it.
PLEASE, dear bay, please use commas.You don't get it. You were ordered to pay the 9k because you were NOT PAYING YOUR COURT ORDERED SUPPORT. The braces are separate. You are legally obligated per your court order to pay for them. It is a separate thing. Her boob job is none of your business. None. She was OWED the 9k and during the time you decided your daughter didn't need to eat your ex was solely supporting her. Perhaps you should not be having children that you can't support. Stop procreating.
ROTFLMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Punctuation is my friend...PLEASE, dear bay, please use commas.
Thanks.....Hey Bay, want to borrow some of my commas left over from earlier this afternoon?
Oh OP, it is so sad that no one understands where you are coming from. Of course mom should have had her breasts augmented but rather should have put the child first and got her braces. The fact that the courts allow such selfishness is ridiculous and painful. I really think you have a right to be frustrated but the problem is you have been the actual legal truth. Why the courts are so mean I don't know> But you have my sympathy.
Seconded. Her (?) posts read like someone's attempt at satire, but without the wit.Are you for real?
Why dont you check with a lawyer to find out if you have to pay for the braces if they are not neccessary (aka cosmetic only)? I know your order says "orthodontia" but I believe in some states the wording is something like "reasonable & neccessary" and wanting braces that you cant afford purely for cosmetic reasons isnt neccessary. So you might check on that.I appreciate the feedback but this is bigger than you can imagine. Bottom line for me is I do pay child support and sleep with a clear conscious at night. You obviously missed that I did in fact give her $9000 in back child support which she claimed would be used for braces last year. When in fact she took the money and purchased new breasts. Now here we are a year later and she is asking that I pay for the braces. Which I have confirmed through this forum I will need to do, that's fine. My issue is my current financial struggle while she rides the gravy train. The woman has no job and can not keep a job longer than 2 weeks!! Yes, I will pursue returning to court because if I don't I'm the idiot who let her get away with it.