4bidN2father
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What is the name of your state?WA
I had been paying child support by directly depositing it into my X's acct at her bank. I am to pay each installment by the last 2 mondays of each month. I have recently started mailing my checks to her on Friday of the week prior. I tried to talk to her about this but she refuses to speak with me. I need to have a paper trail to prove I am making payments since she has threatened me time and time again. Shes angry that I didnt ask her permission before doing this and is now saying that she hasnt recieved any money from me. I suspect that she is throwing the mail away thats from me. She had to have gotten it before now and it hasnt been returned to me. Shes now threatening to take me to court for not paying child support. Is there something I can do, some other way to make payments without handing it off to my child and without putting it in the bank for her, to ensure that she gets the check. She wont sign for certified mail so I cant do that. Please help!
I had been paying child support by directly depositing it into my X's acct at her bank. I am to pay each installment by the last 2 mondays of each month. I have recently started mailing my checks to her on Friday of the week prior. I tried to talk to her about this but she refuses to speak with me. I need to have a paper trail to prove I am making payments since she has threatened me time and time again. Shes angry that I didnt ask her permission before doing this and is now saying that she hasnt recieved any money from me. I suspect that she is throwing the mail away thats from me. She had to have gotten it before now and it hasnt been returned to me. Shes now threatening to take me to court for not paying child support. Is there something I can do, some other way to make payments without handing it off to my child and without putting it in the bank for her, to ensure that she gets the check. She wont sign for certified mail so I cant do that. Please help!