not2cleverRed
Obvious Observer
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NY
A letter from the NY DMV arrived for the ex today at my address.
Held it up to window (did NOT) open it, and it's an Order of Suspension or Revocation. Most likely due to child support arrears (well over a year). Ex does not live in NY. Has lived in MA for over 3 years (same address the whole time). CSEB was provided with his current address when I submitted my application to them this spring.
(1) Do I just hand him the envelope when he arrives for visitation - or should I be doing something to prove that he actually received the envelope?
(2) Should I inform the DMV of his current address? (When the license renewal form arrived at my address last fall, I handed it to him. I would have thought that he would just go to the MA DMV and get a license there. The NY DMV can only suspend NY licenses, right?)
(3) This is, of course a visitation weekend. He usually rents a car and drives down here from MA. If his license has actually been suspended, is it really a good idea to let the kid be a passenger in the car? Offering to chauffeur them doesn't seem like a great solution, telling him to hoof it with the kid would lead to a confrontation.
Moderators - please transfer this elsewhere if appropriate.
I've tried to limit my concerns to one post,
posting here due to the DMV action being most likely related to the child support arrears.
A letter from the NY DMV arrived for the ex today at my address.
Held it up to window (did NOT) open it, and it's an Order of Suspension or Revocation. Most likely due to child support arrears (well over a year). Ex does not live in NY. Has lived in MA for over 3 years (same address the whole time). CSEB was provided with his current address when I submitted my application to them this spring.
(1) Do I just hand him the envelope when he arrives for visitation - or should I be doing something to prove that he actually received the envelope?
(2) Should I inform the DMV of his current address? (When the license renewal form arrived at my address last fall, I handed it to him. I would have thought that he would just go to the MA DMV and get a license there. The NY DMV can only suspend NY licenses, right?)
(3) This is, of course a visitation weekend. He usually rents a car and drives down here from MA. If his license has actually been suspended, is it really a good idea to let the kid be a passenger in the car? Offering to chauffeur them doesn't seem like a great solution, telling him to hoof it with the kid would lead to a confrontation.
Moderators - please transfer this elsewhere if appropriate.
I've tried to limit my concerns to one post,
posting here due to the DMV action being most likely related to the child support arrears.