caddleprod
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? FL
My soon to be ex-wife and I seperated back in late August of last year. She voluntarily moved out of our residence taking our youngest son with her. Since then she has lived with her mother over in an adjacent county to mine. I have also given her money on almost every paycheck of mine to help her out with supporting my son. This is all documented with bank statements as i transfered the money from my bank account to hers online.
She apparently went to the local DCF to see about getting Aide. I guess maybe food stamps and other offerings they provide. Next thing i know is i get served from DCF and Florida Dept. of Revenue. I have a court date next week. They are suing me for child support. Also for all the months since we have been seperated. Also included in their suit is any legal fees incured on their part.
We are in the process of finishing up the divorce. We were planning on doing it ourselves with a divorce kit to save $$$ on legal fees. We have everything agreed upon except the child support. That was the only issue left we were trying to iron out. Of course she was wanting more than what the calculators say i should provide for one child. I do not have a problem paying more than what the calculators are saying i should provide, but she is wanting more like an extra $200.00 more than what they say i should pay, and that would make it impossible for me to be able to pay my own bills.
My question is. I do not know what she told DCF, whether she told them i was not giving her any money at all, or what. I am wondering if i have any legal leg to stand on here. I mean we are not legally divorced. She moved out voluntarily, and i have been giving her money since she left which i have documented. Does that not count for anything? Why does Florida Dept. of Revenue even have to be involved.
Thanks for any help anyone can provide here.
My soon to be ex-wife and I seperated back in late August of last year. She voluntarily moved out of our residence taking our youngest son with her. Since then she has lived with her mother over in an adjacent county to mine. I have also given her money on almost every paycheck of mine to help her out with supporting my son. This is all documented with bank statements as i transfered the money from my bank account to hers online.
She apparently went to the local DCF to see about getting Aide. I guess maybe food stamps and other offerings they provide. Next thing i know is i get served from DCF and Florida Dept. of Revenue. I have a court date next week. They are suing me for child support. Also for all the months since we have been seperated. Also included in their suit is any legal fees incured on their part.
We are in the process of finishing up the divorce. We were planning on doing it ourselves with a divorce kit to save $$$ on legal fees. We have everything agreed upon except the child support. That was the only issue left we were trying to iron out. Of course she was wanting more than what the calculators say i should provide for one child. I do not have a problem paying more than what the calculators are saying i should provide, but she is wanting more like an extra $200.00 more than what they say i should pay, and that would make it impossible for me to be able to pay my own bills.
My question is. I do not know what she told DCF, whether she told them i was not giving her any money at all, or what. I am wondering if i have any legal leg to stand on here. I mean we are not legally divorced. She moved out voluntarily, and i have been giving her money since she left which i have documented. Does that not count for anything? Why does Florida Dept. of Revenue even have to be involved.
Thanks for any help anyone can provide here.