What is the name of your state? CA
My child was six years old when the last court order was issued.
My ex was earning very little and was ordered to pay $137.
I was awarded physical custody and he was awarded the standard 2 weekends per month, half of the holidays and vacations including 6 weeks in the summer (custody reverses in the summer).
She is now 15 1/2 and has decided that she no longer gets anything out of of the visits.
She actually hates going.
She left him a message on 05/03/06 to tell him that she no longer wanted to visit every other weekend beginning with 05/05/06. She asked him to return her call and to he has not as of today. The last time I spoke to him, he said "F you" and hung up on me. He was mad at me because I sent him an email rather than calling him to inform him that our daughter may have asthma, doctor appts etc.
Anyway, it's clear that he is not easy to deal with and I don't want to be in contempt of court by not making her go there etc. He also earns a great deal more than he did in 1997. He earns $55,000/yr or so and I earn $66,000.
I need advice on what to do. It is SO expensive to go back to court and she is 15 1/2.
I want to put away money for college etc.
Another thing is that I just remarried 03/22/06 and I'm not sure if my spouse's income will be considered.
In addition, my ex was recently divorced 08/05. He has two other children from that marriage. He and his second wife asked signed an agreement to have him sign a quitclaim deed to their home in exchange for waiving child support for the two kids. If he hadn't signed the quitclaim he stood to receive approximately $100,000.
Please help.
My child was six years old when the last court order was issued.
My ex was earning very little and was ordered to pay $137.
I was awarded physical custody and he was awarded the standard 2 weekends per month, half of the holidays and vacations including 6 weeks in the summer (custody reverses in the summer).
She is now 15 1/2 and has decided that she no longer gets anything out of of the visits.
She actually hates going.
She left him a message on 05/03/06 to tell him that she no longer wanted to visit every other weekend beginning with 05/05/06. She asked him to return her call and to he has not as of today. The last time I spoke to him, he said "F you" and hung up on me. He was mad at me because I sent him an email rather than calling him to inform him that our daughter may have asthma, doctor appts etc.
Anyway, it's clear that he is not easy to deal with and I don't want to be in contempt of court by not making her go there etc. He also earns a great deal more than he did in 1997. He earns $55,000/yr or so and I earn $66,000.
I need advice on what to do. It is SO expensive to go back to court and she is 15 1/2.
I want to put away money for college etc.
Another thing is that I just remarried 03/22/06 and I'm not sure if my spouse's income will be considered.
In addition, my ex was recently divorced 08/05. He has two other children from that marriage. He and his second wife asked signed an agreement to have him sign a quitclaim deed to their home in exchange for waiving child support for the two kids. If he hadn't signed the quitclaim he stood to receive approximately $100,000.
Please help.
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