Virginia
Please help!
My son is 14years old . When he was 8 his father and I went to court moderator and made up a agreement that father would get visitation on weekends. ( the Judge singed this) At the time I mostly aloowed him to go over to visit his grandam. But He has NOT honored that for at least 5 years and THANKFULLY ! Since then he has got 2 DWIs in 2 states and has come over drunk to out house on a few occassions. The only way he has seen his son is when he has come to our house and even then its only a short time becasue he always partying....
My son and I dont like this man ! He also refuses to call my son by his real name given at birth and decided to name him something else that him and his family call him. Needless to say this really HURTS my son and he has askes at least 1000 times to stop calling him this! But they refuse! this is mental abuse and it could even cause an identitiy problem later in life if I allowed him to visit. Thats just a small reason we dont like this man, safety is the MAIN reason. DRUNK driving! Mental abuse, and he does not like him!
NOW Iam going to court to collect my arears in child support and he threatend me that he will persue the weekend visitation!
My son does not want to go anywere with this man!!!! WHAT can I do? Im just sick over this! Is my child allowed to refuse going with him for the weekends? He is 14 yrs old now ans should have a say !
PLEASE HELP, Iam so worried and my blood pressure is sky high from all this! What can I do so he does not have to do visitation, please help....Thank you so much!
Please help!
My son is 14years old . When he was 8 his father and I went to court moderator and made up a agreement that father would get visitation on weekends. ( the Judge singed this) At the time I mostly aloowed him to go over to visit his grandam. But He has NOT honored that for at least 5 years and THANKFULLY ! Since then he has got 2 DWIs in 2 states and has come over drunk to out house on a few occassions. The only way he has seen his son is when he has come to our house and even then its only a short time becasue he always partying....
My son and I dont like this man ! He also refuses to call my son by his real name given at birth and decided to name him something else that him and his family call him. Needless to say this really HURTS my son and he has askes at least 1000 times to stop calling him this! But they refuse! this is mental abuse and it could even cause an identitiy problem later in life if I allowed him to visit. Thats just a small reason we dont like this man, safety is the MAIN reason. DRUNK driving! Mental abuse, and he does not like him!
NOW Iam going to court to collect my arears in child support and he threatend me that he will persue the weekend visitation!
My son does not want to go anywere with this man!!!! WHAT can I do? Im just sick over this! Is my child allowed to refuse going with him for the weekends? He is 14 yrs old now ans should have a say !
PLEASE HELP, Iam so worried and my blood pressure is sky high from all this! What can I do so he does not have to do visitation, please help....Thank you so much!
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