justsomeguy
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA
My ex is wanting to move with her parents, and my daughter out of the country. I'm not happy about it but I'm able to visit frequently and I'm hoping to have her here during the summers. j
At anyrate, these are the things we've agreed upon and I have to put them into a child support modification but I'm not sure if there is a way to make this binding?
Currently I'm paying my ex child support, I would like to continue this as stated, but I want my daughter enrolled in a private school (ex agrees) I also want my daughter to stay with me during the summers.
I would like it be a condition of my child support that if I have evidence my daughter is not attending school, or if she does not come home for the summer, I can discontinue child support (BTW I'd be putting it in a savings for her regardless but I want to keep some leverage)
My ex is in full agreement on all of this I'm just not sure how to make it binding, or if it even can be?
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EDIT: Thanks for the responses. I guess you could say in some ways I'm controlling in that I want to have some control over where my daughter goes to school. Shes moving to the Philippians and I want her in a private school, Her mother wants to homeschool her, however I don't trust the mothers ability or resolve to effectively provide home school for her, so yes If that means I'm being controlling, I am as to protect my daughter. I am not in any way trying to get out of paying any money, I'm still planning on paying my money to the ex even when my daughters here, although beyond what I'm paying them and my bills I'm pretty broke, or else I would be doing all this with an attorney, and in the meantime it would be nearly impossible for me to enforce any type of custody order overseas.
My ex is wanting to move with her parents, and my daughter out of the country. I'm not happy about it but I'm able to visit frequently and I'm hoping to have her here during the summers. j
At anyrate, these are the things we've agreed upon and I have to put them into a child support modification but I'm not sure if there is a way to make this binding?
Currently I'm paying my ex child support, I would like to continue this as stated, but I want my daughter enrolled in a private school (ex agrees) I also want my daughter to stay with me during the summers.
I would like it be a condition of my child support that if I have evidence my daughter is not attending school, or if she does not come home for the summer, I can discontinue child support (BTW I'd be putting it in a savings for her regardless but I want to keep some leverage)
My ex is in full agreement on all of this I'm just not sure how to make it binding, or if it even can be?
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EDIT: Thanks for the responses. I guess you could say in some ways I'm controlling in that I want to have some control over where my daughter goes to school. Shes moving to the Philippians and I want her in a private school, Her mother wants to homeschool her, however I don't trust the mothers ability or resolve to effectively provide home school for her, so yes If that means I'm being controlling, I am as to protect my daughter. I am not in any way trying to get out of paying any money, I'm still planning on paying my money to the ex even when my daughters here, although beyond what I'm paying them and my bills I'm pretty broke, or else I would be doing all this with an attorney, and in the meantime it would be nearly impossible for me to enforce any type of custody order overseas.
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