We were never married. She has a visitation stipulation from awhile ago, but I stopped seeing them so I am not sure if it would be in play anymore. I want to see them, but it really isn't worth all of the headaches of listening to her complain and give me a hard time. Plus she thinks it is better for them which she is a good mother and she has never given me a hard time before, but I screwed this up myself. So she just thinks it is better this way.