sickaboutit
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Oklahoma
My husband is currently active duty stationed in Germany. He is currently paying support for his 2 children. Is it possible for him to request a monthly statement from the child support office regarding where and how the support is being spent on the children (i.e reciepts). Last year when we were in court the judge ordered that he would be able to claim the children on his taxes because the mother did not work, and stated that as long as she didn't work he could carry them, but when we recieved the support order it did not state that as long as the mother was not working he could claim his children. What can he do for this year if she's not working? She usually doesn't work, but allows a sister or other relative to carry the children so she can get a cut from them. Is it possible for my husband to request a flag be placed on the childrens social's to assure if she refuses to allow him to carry them, that she will not allow anyone else to carry them. If this was a sensible woman things would run a lot smoother, but because she's a golddigger who does not like to work I want to find out as much advice as I can to combat this woman. Everytime she thinks we have bought a new car or when we had our daughter she wants to drag us into court for more money! I want to put a stop to this. My husband pays her well every month........I'm putting a stop to her GHETTO games!
My husband is currently active duty stationed in Germany. He is currently paying support for his 2 children. Is it possible for him to request a monthly statement from the child support office regarding where and how the support is being spent on the children (i.e reciepts). Last year when we were in court the judge ordered that he would be able to claim the children on his taxes because the mother did not work, and stated that as long as she didn't work he could carry them, but when we recieved the support order it did not state that as long as the mother was not working he could claim his children. What can he do for this year if she's not working? She usually doesn't work, but allows a sister or other relative to carry the children so she can get a cut from them. Is it possible for my husband to request a flag be placed on the childrens social's to assure if she refuses to allow him to carry them, that she will not allow anyone else to carry them. If this was a sensible woman things would run a lot smoother, but because she's a golddigger who does not like to work I want to find out as much advice as I can to combat this woman. Everytime she thinks we have bought a new car or when we had our daughter she wants to drag us into court for more money! I want to put a stop to this. My husband pays her well every month........I'm putting a stop to her GHETTO games!