mommieoffour
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? California So basically if I married a man that owes child support I am better off getting a divorce?
So basicaly you are saying that you want to get a divorce so you can go after your husband for child support for "YOUR FOUR KIDS" so he does not have to pay so much for your "STEPSON". Leave me guess you will still live with him and live like you are married because you LOVE him so much.That is so selfish. You are willing to commit fraud so your husband does not have to support his first born. You should of thought about having four more kids with this man. This makes me so sick ! You knew he had to support that first kid when you got with him. What made you think that once you got married it would change the support !mommieoffour said:actually I was just reading about the child support issues others are going through and realize nothing can be done about my situation. My husband does pay child support for his 13 year old son. We have four kids together and I like others on here are trying to get ahead and well no one seems to have any sympathy for people who do pay their child support but yet struggle with their families. I feel like divorce from him is my only option. I cannot continue to struggle like this with my own four kids and pay so much out to one kid. It would be best in my financial situation to get a divorce. I wonder why the system is like that??
And you think it will be easier on you, him, and all the kids concerned if he now has to fully support one household and help support two others? How do the kids do better in this situation?mommieoffour said:actually I was just reading about the child support issues others are going through and realize nothing can be done about my situation. My husband does pay child support for his 13 year old son. We have four kids together and I like others on here are trying to get ahead and well no one seems to have any sympathy for people who do pay their child support but yet struggle with their families. I feel like divorce from him is my only option. I cannot continue to struggle like this with my own four kids and pay so much out to one kid. It would be best in my financial situation to get a divorce. I wonder why the system is like that??