nurturingdad
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Colorado
After a year and a half custody battle, court date came and went, I got 50 50 split physical custody (182 overnights) and joint decision making.
My ex was imputed income as it was proven in court that she not only was hiding money, but she was under employed and had not filed taxes for the last 2 years. (the judge was not happy!)
I was ordered to pay child support which I am OK with as It is only fair I support my children, always have and always will even if she earned 100K a month.
Having said that here is the issue, since the court hearing and the permanent orders came thru she has been emailing me non stop, wanting me to split the cost of clothing, haircuts and expenses that should be included in child support. In the past I paid for clothes in my house and also for her home as apparently the CS wasn't enough (I know prob not the best idea), heck I even bought tylenol because she couldn't afford it!
.. so she got used to that and is not only expecting it but keeping a tab on monies owed such as haircuts, clothes, etc.
I told her I will care for the kid's needs including clothing and haircuts while at my house and she can do the same at her home, also since I pay her child support she should use that money to pay for those expenses at her house, she now is asking me the following:
Then if I understand you correctly you will be buying winter boots, coats, shoes ect for your home? (I always did!)
The kids will have two winter coats, two winter boats, min if two pair of shoes, etc?
We will switch back and forth fir hair cuts?
Am I wrong and in physical split custody.. I am supposed to pay for these items for her house, mine and pay her child support?
Thank you.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
After a year and a half custody battle, court date came and went, I got 50 50 split physical custody (182 overnights) and joint decision making.
My ex was imputed income as it was proven in court that she not only was hiding money, but she was under employed and had not filed taxes for the last 2 years. (the judge was not happy!)
I was ordered to pay child support which I am OK with as It is only fair I support my children, always have and always will even if she earned 100K a month.
Having said that here is the issue, since the court hearing and the permanent orders came thru she has been emailing me non stop, wanting me to split the cost of clothing, haircuts and expenses that should be included in child support. In the past I paid for clothes in my house and also for her home as apparently the CS wasn't enough (I know prob not the best idea), heck I even bought tylenol because she couldn't afford it!
.. so she got used to that and is not only expecting it but keeping a tab on monies owed such as haircuts, clothes, etc.
I told her I will care for the kid's needs including clothing and haircuts while at my house and she can do the same at her home, also since I pay her child support she should use that money to pay for those expenses at her house, she now is asking me the following:
Then if I understand you correctly you will be buying winter boots, coats, shoes ect for your home? (I always did!)
The kids will have two winter coats, two winter boats, min if two pair of shoes, etc?
We will switch back and forth fir hair cuts?
Am I wrong and in physical split custody.. I am supposed to pay for these items for her house, mine and pay her child support?
Thank you.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?