First off, if she discontinues payments then he will be going to jail. I know she does not want that, so more than likely she will not. He already has another case pending against him which we go to court for on the 14th of this month, so he has a huge paper trail following him and I highly doubt they are going to go "light" on him.
On another note, my mom? What does my mother have to do with anything? I don't live off of others like he chooses to. I provide for myself and the babies on my own, with addition to the child support. And quite honestly, $300/month for 2 babies is not a whole lot. That doesn't cover for even half of the actual expenses. Formula is about $250 alone! I do have the money for car seats, just not right now. Without car seats, I can not take them to the sitter so I can go to work. That is why I am wanting to know because when I go to pick them up, I want to know if they do end up calling the police, can they take them?