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My husband had an affair 9 yrs ago while we were married. A child was born from the relationship and the mother of the child sued him for child support. He has been paying every penny since the order. We on the other hand been trying to reconcile our relationship, we have 3 children, one was born months after the other child. We have moved from our current resisdence to move away from the mother who was seen at my husbands work and at our old residence. Now, after 7 years, she has found us and moved only 2 miles away from our house only months after our move . She has placed 2 invites in our mailbox that had no address on it just my husbands name for the childs birthday party. My husband responded back by writing a letter stating she is not allowed to come by our house. That was a year and a half ago, now she is filing for more child support and medical insurance and day care expenses. My husband has nothing to do with the child he just pays for the child support there is no visitation on his part. I was wondering were I stand. I make almost as much as my husband,. Can she get my earnings as well. I also hold the insurance because my husband's company does not provide it. Do I have to add the child on to my? If I decided to file a divorce will my child support be decreased because of her child and can I sue her for stress realated issues? I live in the state of Illinois.