Its fine that it is PUBLIC knowledge. Problem is and what is pointed out by some senior members when its convenient for them, is the fact that this is a LEGAL forum. Therefore, I am quite sure that op does not care diddly poo what that person or anyone else has to say about their reproductive choices. That was afterall my entire point in the first place. Message was... just stick to the legal facts nothing more. No one needs to hear or read someones diatribe about how they think and feel this is the way they should live their life, who cares, stick to the facts, and only the facts. Enough said.