Child support questions

[Extramalto]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA

I don't want to pay child support because I have no job and I pretty much don't have money. My gf is fine with this. But it's the law , so how does that work if my gf is fine with me not paying child support? How do we go about doing that?

She lives in LA. I live in a different city ( still ca).
She lied to her case workers when applying for ebt that she does not know the father. I did not want her to do that. I signed the birth certificate.

I received a child support letter a few months ago. I haven't really looked at it. My gf says to not fill it out or turn it in. Is it bad if I don't fill it out and send it back?

I don't know what to do. Is the government going to come after me? What will they do?

 

[Silverplum]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA

I don't want to pay child support because I have no job and I pretty much don't have money. My gf is fine with this. But it's the law , so how does that work if my gf is fine with me not paying child support? How do we go about doing that?

She lives in LA. I live in a different city ( still ca).
She lied to her case workers when applying for ebt that she does not know the father. I did not want her to do that. I signed the birth certificate.

I received a child support letter a few months ago. I haven't really looked at it. My gf says to not fill it out or turn it in. Is it bad if I don't fill it out and send it back?

I don't know what to do. Is the government going to come after me? What will they do?

You want us to teach you how to get out of paying child support?

I don't think so.

 

[Zigner]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA

I don't want to pay child support because I have no job and I pretty much don't have money. My gf is fine with this. But it's the law , so how does that work if my gf is fine with me not paying child support? How do we go about doing that?

She lives in LA. I live in a different city ( still ca).
She lied to her case workers when applying for ebt that she does not know the father. I did not want her to do that. I signed the birth certificate.

I received a child support letter a few months ago. I haven't really looked at it. My gf says to not fill it out or turn it in. Is it bad if I don't fill it out and send it back?

I don't know what to do. Is the government going to come after me? What will they do?

Yes, the government expects BOTH parents to support their child. I would suggest that you stop taking legal advice from your ex. I know she's not your ex yet, but she really doesn't have your best interest at heart.

 

[Extramalto]

You want us to teach you how to get out of paying child support?

I don't think so.

But she is ok with me not paying child support . I have heard about other people that don't pay child support because there girlfriend is ok with them not paying child support but how do they set that up?

 

[Silverplum]

But she is ok with me not paying child support . I have heard about other people that don't pay child support because there girlfriend is ok with them not paying child support but how do they set that up?

See Post #2. Or #3.

And stop asking the same question. It's been answered.

 

[Extramalto]

It hasn't been answered. You people aren't helping .

 

[Zigner]

But she is ok with me not paying child support . I have heard about other people that don't pay child support because there girlfriend is ok with them not paying child support but how do they set that up?

Too late - the GOVERNMENT has stepped in to take up the slack, and they won't be ok with it.

 

[Zigner]

It hasn't been answered. You people aren't helping .

You are really in no position to claim we "aren't helping." You're the one who is trying to figure out how to avoid supporting your child.

 

[Extramalto]

No. I am supporting my child. I plan to help as much as I possibly can and I do. But like I said I have no job. I can't get a job. I can't do anything. I am useless. I can help with raising my baby boy though, and I will. But this child support stuff is confusing .

 

[Zigner]

No. I am supporting my child. I plan to help as much as I possibly can and I do. But like I said I have no job. I can't get a job. I can't do anything. I am useless. I can help with raising my baby boy though, and I will. But this child support stuff is confusing .

How are you supporting your child?

 

[Just Blue]

It hasn't been answered. You people aren't helping .

I will answer. The state knows who you are and will place a court ORDER for support. You will either get a job and support the child you assisted in making or you will end up in Jail.

 

[Extramalto]

How are you supporting your child?

I help raise him. He is 7 months. Change diapers . Put him to sleep for naps so mom can get rest. Go on walks with him. Read to him. Clean his dirty poopy clothes . Feed him.

I plan to be completely involved and a part of his life. I play piano. I want to teach him piano and teach him so much more.


I don't have money. My parents do. With there money I pay for food and diapers. We both live with our parents .

 

[Extramalto]

I will answer. The state knows who you are and will place a court ORDER for support. You will either get a job and support the child you assisted in making or you will end up in Jail.

Ok and how do those people out there not pay child support ?

 

[Just Blue]

Ok and how do those people out there not pay child support ?

Either they have not had an COURT ORDER or they are evading an order. If the later they will end up in jail.