sboop said:
MA. He is more than just a twit and is very stupid not to pay his taxes but on my end my concern is more about making him be responsible for our child physically and financially! I don't approve of what he is doing but he will only lose in the end. He also did receive 1099 forms with a much smaller amount of what he is making and I believe the remaining money was given under the table.
Realistically...and I am sorry to tell you this.....you should pretty much give up on the idea of receiving any regular support from him.
He has learned how to "play the game". Yes, he will be ordered to pay support based on at least minimum wage, but your opportunities to collect from him are going to be slim to none. He may get jailed now and then and you may get some support occasionally as a result, but honestly there is little chance that you are going to be able to count on it on a consistant basis.
Just take comfort in the fact that in the end...he is only messing himself up. He is the one who is going to end up being a homeless old man....or a man who will still be making arrearage payments when his kids are in their 40's and 50's.