Gypsymomof3
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
I am in New York
Mother of 3
One with special needs
My mom moved in with me after my divorce
She has her own room and she pays for no expenses
In exchange she is my source of childcare
My ex husband is supposed to be paying 1/2 of child care expenses
However since there are no monies exchanged with my mom
(I can't afford to pay her and shelter and feed her)
I can't show receipts of child care costs
My mom is willing to write a letter stating the agreement
And in all honesty she watching is alot less than hourly childcare
Do I come up with the fair value of a room with all utilities and meals
As a way to show the judge in court? Would her letter also suffice
My son cannot just be left with anyone
His needs are great as he is autistic
Please advise how I could satisfy what a judge may want considering
The circumstances
Thank you!
I am in New York
Mother of 3
One with special needs
My mom moved in with me after my divorce
She has her own room and she pays for no expenses
In exchange she is my source of childcare
My ex husband is supposed to be paying 1/2 of child care expenses
However since there are no monies exchanged with my mom
(I can't afford to pay her and shelter and feed her)
I can't show receipts of child care costs
My mom is willing to write a letter stating the agreement
And in all honesty she watching is alot less than hourly childcare
Do I come up with the fair value of a room with all utilities and meals
As a way to show the judge in court? Would her letter also suffice
My son cannot just be left with anyone
His needs are great as he is autistic
Please advise how I could satisfy what a judge may want considering
The circumstances
Thank you!